No ExceptionsIt disturbs me when I see groups about people who have rape fantasies. OK, so maybe you dream of controlling, or being controlled by, your partner. Maybe you'd do a little role playing.
But that isn't rape.
Rape is someone violating your intimacy, your body. Sex is something special, and when it's being forced on you, that special-ness turns to horrible-ness. Something that should be beautiful and fun and special is distorted into pain, hurt and confusion. It's nothing sexy. It's an abuse of power. And not only are the emotional wounds deep, they are also hard to heal and they get infected easily.
Rape is nasty and criminal. It's never, ever OK.