How Can I Stop Worrying

My, God. I just want that first kiss so bad. I do worry, a lot. My main reason, is that my fear of dying without a first kiss. Oh, that would hurt so bad. Really bad. Just knowing that I didn't get it, would hurt. Knowing that I failed before ever getting so close to it. I can't even focus from worrying about it. Because I have that fear, just that fear, of not getting it. I would think it is a punishment from God. The problem is my good people. I can't attract girls. Then I lay in my bed and think about it all the time. I would completely obsess over it. A lot of it, is because of playing with myself. I don't want to do it anymore. Right or wrong. I don't want to do it anymore. No more of playing with myself for now. I just worry so much, and I want to know how that I can stop doing that. I always feel like I am going to do something bad anytime soon. Now I have to wait on your comments. I just hate waiting for anything.

chicago54 chicago54
22-25, M
2 Responses Feb 15, 2010

take a maximum strength chill pill my man - a fearing and a fretting ain't that attractive so no digs why you scaring away the babes...<br />
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you need to relax, find love for yourself as you are right now and work from that center - BE YO' SELF...your true self, no lies, no pretends, no bull, no acting, no falsities, just be yourself and I swears on McJagger's 125 year old lips that a special kiss is coming your way...<br />
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do yourself a solid and calm yo-self brother...peace in your center, calm on your exterior, cool for your soul and "HELLO" <br />
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If you really want it you gotta allow it to happen - kisses are like Honey - you got to let it flow easy like if you keep forcing the need and snatching at it you just suqeeze the fruit and she falls through the cracks...opportunity is only a matter of turning your canoe downstream and going with the flow brother...and turning downstream is easily done by seeking inner happiness and joy in your life...cause I tell you right now for FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE...nothing like a happy, joy-Filled fun-loving man attracts the bees to the honey...everything you want is downstream brother - stop paddling upstream and let go of the obsession - get happy NOW and turn your canoe downstream and go with the flow my bro...and I swear your next problem will be who to kiss in what order cause they'll be like throwing the honey at you all sticky and moist and warm ...hhhmmm I think I gonna have me some honey on toast...<br />
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In summary...<br />
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LOVE YOURSELF, ACKNOWLEDGE your FEAR, bless it, address it and LET IT GO, Take it easy, find your joy, get passionate about your inner happiness, GO WITH THE FLOW...and I promise HONEY SWEET HONEY WILL KISS YOU ON THE LIPS before you even know...

"I would think it is a punishment from God." If you believe in God, start with prayer. Discuss it with God and ask for help. Meditation and relaxation techniques can also be helpful, and you can google them easily enough.<br />
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Worrying about your first kiss can make the experience forced and unpleasant. Let that part go and focus on finding the right woman to be with, and let things flow from there. My first kiss was fantastic and very memorable, and I had no idea it was about to happen until it did. When the moment was right, it was very clear.