What Do I Do For My Friend?

I have a question, what if you made one of the biggest

mistakes of your life.  Like, you were best friends with someone.  They move.

For a while you are still really good friends.

Then, you do somethings so incredible stupid, you would look back at it and say,

why the HECK did i do that?  It takes a few months, about 6, and you

ask for your friends forgivness.  They forgive you.  You still miss each other

but the best friend still doesn't want to be friends.  But you have this feeling

that you really need to help her but you don't know what to do.  You have even

fasted about it.  At the begining you were having all those lessons about

not really have any friends that don't have standards as high as yours.  So, with this

friend her standards aren't that high.  So, you think your doing a good thing.

Now, a while back you had all those lessons about loving your enemy.  Now, she isn't

your enemy.  You both miss each other alot, but the friend doesn't want to be friends.

What do you do?  Do you just let it be?  Hopeing it fixes itself?  Or do you act?

breyer106 breyer106
3 Responses Mar 10, 2010

Tell her strait up how you feel. Tell her what you feel and what you want to have happen. If she says she doesn't want to be friends then at least you know that she knows how you feel then it will be off your chest and you can move on. If she changes her mind and wants to be friends again later down the road then everything has already been put on table, and you two can move forward instead of standing still.

Balentay - But how do i act on it? What do i do?

I'd act. Nothing will fix itself. You will grow even further apart if one of you doesn't do something to fix it.