Living A Lie

I'm a closet lesbian and I can't come out for fear of my family and friends :( my family is very religious and against it :( please help :( any advice will be appreciated and I'd be happy to answer any questions you have about my problem. Also I think I am in love with a girl right now :(
Lindz94 Lindz94 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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hi. keep it screte until you becom more stronger or dont tell them at all be carful and tell you friend that you are in love with her and be together be happy br carful what happen will happen this is your life just be happy **** the warld in love with her be together be happy be carful and **** the warld

You may not value my opinion much because I am not really an expert in coming out of the closet because I am a man who loves women and I have been out of that closet all my life, actually I have started to enjoy female Domination in role playing online haha! yes, I am straight, yes I am a Man oh you must hate this haha! I write to you as a person. You. As the Person you are. That is the important concept. Not that you are A Lesbian. It reminds me of a time some good women posted something about a Gay Couple adopting a child; they were aghast! I knew all the arguments about that on both sides. I don't carry any kind of torch for the Gay Agenda or anything like that. I am, however, as it happens, a classically trained American Lawyer. I am steeped in the U. S. Constitution. It says All Persons shall have the Equal Protection of the Laws. I wrote that as a response to those good women they were not a Gay Couple adopting a child they were persons, people, who were gay, and they were adopting a child the same as other people do. They went absolutely silent on that issue thereafter. Your cry brings this to my mind You have the right to be the Person you decide to be. Without regard for the thinking of others or institutions like family and churches. Whether what you do is sin or not, well ALL have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, ya, ya ya ya heterosexuals sin plenty too, so that part is just between you and your God.

Will you have trouble from those in your life, well, probably so, but maybe not so badly as you imagine. There may also be understanding and acceptance, even where you dont expect it.

I imagine you will need Courage.

Take Courage!

Take the Courage to simply be yourself.

I wish you all the Courage Love and Happiness in the world for 2011

your friend