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So I'm A B*tch. Really Now?

By: pamelamc
Written on February 19th, 2013
By: pamelamc
Age: 41-45 , Female
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  • wonderMe07

    No, as I call it your SUPER WOMAN. You are not allowed to get sick or have a headach because everyone needs something from you.You forgot you are a doctor, therapist, handyman, maid, lover, and of course you know everything you have to have an answer gor everything. If you aren't home one day, his world and your kids would be chaos.

    Feb 20
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    • pamelamc

      Thanks =)

      He is mostly the handyman, but I did change the float thingy in the toilet once.

      Feb 20
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  • testmain

    As another poster said, you are not a b*tch at all, it sounds like your guy isn't worthy of you what so ever. And I'd say, (as a guy) you have every right to be angry about the situation. Try to find someone that treats you and your kids right :)

    Feb 20
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  • Squized

    Hi, you sound pretty angry but not ready for the change. Am I right?

    Feb 20
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  • Melody84

    You've made my day

    Feb 19
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  • SadGreenEyedGirl

    You are a strong woman. B*tch should not be your title unless you look at him and say, "That's Miss B*tch to you. You better say please."

    Feb 19
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    • pamelamc

      Love that! I'll say that next time =)

      Feb 20
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  • ambroseguy80

    Wow! Where can I get me a b*itch like this? ;-)

    Feb 19
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  • nuttymontgomery

    Pamela, sister....you are sooooo NOT a biotch!!
    You do ALL that??? OMG!... I used to do those things, moved because he wanted to "try something new"...I gave up good jobs ..3 times, etc...so, I totally understand you.
    However, my friend... I gave up half of those things when he decided not to get off the couch at night and come to bed with me. And, if he ever called me a *****.... I'd SHOW him one....& he better hide the little lighter thingy...bc all of his underwear would be in a FLAMING PILE on the front lawn!!...(& we don't have any 24hr stores here 2 buy some more) ...yeah, do that ONE time, my friend...he won't call you a ***** anymore... Lol!

    Feb 19
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    • nuttymontgomery

      (I bet that scared some men here! LMAO!!... sorry, I'm not usually so forceful, but, sometimes, you have to be)... Oh, & I should add.... You are a great wife & I bet most men reading this would be like, "Wow! she does all THAT!?" & wish they had a wife like you.. So, just remember that, the next time he is disrespectful to you, ok? : >

      Feb 19
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    • knightlike

      Is that like going Pyro vs. going Postal?

      Feb 19
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    • nuttymontgomery

      LOL!! Hmmm... I suppose so.... Like a big, shiny sign, for the whole neighborhood to see... "Hey, look what happens when you call your wife degrading names" ... Do you think so, knightlike?
      (My H would be so freeked, he'd never call me anything else, for fear of what would go up in flames next!.. haha)

      Feb 19
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    • knightlike

      Fire can definitely cleanse the soul and the tongue in a hurry. I picture you with a seductive smile and an Acetylene Torch up next to your face taunting your man....what did you call me???

      Feb 19
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    • nuttymontgomery

      Lol!! very accurate! : >

      Feb 19
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    • pamelamc

      Ya'll crack me up. Maybe I should.

      The list wasn't meant to bash him or make him seem like he doesn't do anything. He does plenty and even put me through school. It's just name calling after all I have done for him.

      Feb 19
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    • nuttymontgomery

      My H put me through school also, he's a foot taller than me and weighs at least 100 pounds more than I do.... but, he knows I wouldn't put up with him degrading me for 10 seconds.... doing without sex can really make you irritable...Lol!!

      Feb 19
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    • pamelamc

      Yea it can, but I'm the one doing without. He couldn't care less. He threw me a bone a week and a half ago after nearly a year=)

      Feb 19
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    • knightlike

      Pamalama you burn his underwear on the front lawn....you won't need any muscle he'll straighten right up

      Feb 19
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    • nuttymontgomery

      Well, that's a good sign! Isn't it? ...you are a SAINT!!...a Year...I go a month or two and think I'm ready to call it quits...but, I won't....
      Your H doesn't know how good he has it! (as ambrose pointed out)
      ...I'm the one doing without also... can't you tell? Lol!!

      Feb 19
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    • nuttymontgomery

      Thank you, knightlike!.....I agree!
      heehee

      Feb 19
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  • LostInTheWoulds

    Wow .... I guess he is too self absorbed to see what is going on. :( how sad

    Feb 19
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  • knightlike

    PS, I have always wanted to ask if those are really your feet?

    Feb 19
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    • pamelamc

      Yes, right after my pedi. wearing my "******** shoes."

      Feb 19
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  • knightlike

    What? You gotta be kidding me...that is wholly unacceptable. I don't know where you live but I will be glad to confront him face to face on your behalf. That is chicken to talk to you like that. Girl, we need to talk further about this. You don't need EP you need Guido. PM me for real if you want some help.

    Feb 19
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    • pamelamc

      Thanks =) I'll let you know if I need back up.

      Feb 19
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