22 Yrs Of Nothing

I can only imagine how incredibly amazing it must feel to kiss. I've dreamed of it before, those being my most happiest moments of my life. I'm 22 years old. I don't think I'll ever kiss a girl. It seems like an impossibility now.

wavering wavering
22-25, M
12 Responses Feb 14, 2010

I'm 13 and I just made out with someone for the first time yesterday it was amazing. Kissing is easy you'll know when the time is right. I had my first kiss when I was 10 or 11. Don't worry it will happen eventually ;)

I know its a very old post and nobody's gonna read, I am 27 years old, I have never been kissed, i also imagine how divine a kiss would be... well i need to be married for my 1st kiss, donno when that is supposed to happen......... :)<br />
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All time wasted... I will tell this to my guy when he kisses me...

You must be married before you can kiss a guy? Why?

I am an Indian, it sort of works that way... :)
Still rooted in our culture...

i feel your pain but im a bit diff i never wan to be kissed or kiss some one this world is messed up too many people my age or a bit younger ill be 18 in like a week n a half share drinks smoke cigs and so on im not gonna do that but i dont want to get sick the person i kiss better be as much a virgin on the lips and were ever else so i can deflower them yeah bu dont worry our time will come and thin of it this way were hose less likely few who wont get a sexual transmitted disease

Thanks all. I'm not too down about it anymore. I think a first kiss at a younger age would have been amazing. But I'm looking to the future.

You are funny. <br />
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Maybe it's a freedom for girls, but whatever I wanted, I went and got it. I was in love (age 16) with my first boyfriend (age 17) and at age 16 it's so much easier to get head over heels for someone and all the experiences. It really was like fireworks. <br />
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Go ahead, get what you want, kiss her when the excitement of the moment is built up in your head. It's like snowboarding is a "just do" sport. You can't over think things. Just kiss her when you feel like it.

You are funny. <br />
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Maybe it's a freedom for girls, but whatever I wanted, I went and got it. I was in love (age 16) with my first boyfriend (age 17) and at age 16 it's so much easier to get head over heels for someone and all the experiences. It really was like fireworks. <br />
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Go ahead, get what you want, kiss her when the excitement of the moment is built up in your head. It's like snowboarding is a "just do" sport. You can't over think things. Just kiss her when you feel like it.

eh.. to tell ya the truth its kind of disappointing at first.. in the movies they have that huge scene and then this huge romantic kiss that looks really awesome and makes ya feel all warm and fuzzy inside.. RARELY that happens in real life.. lol I'm not saying it won't happen though, my first kiss was when I was 14 with the love of my life!!... at the time, and it was like kiss... then we jus stared at eachother because people keep saying there's a spark there when ya kiss if its meant to be.. well there was nothing except our lips touching eachother but it was fun.. <br />
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now with my current boyfriend (he is 21 and I am 21), it's pretty funny, but when we kiss there literally is a spark of static electricity.. EVERY TIME!! and we both swear that it's a sign, we have been together for a year and 7months, not a single fight.. we have bickered about little stuff but no fight where we were truly mad at eachother.. <br />
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keep your spirits up!! It can and will happen just don't expect something awesome to then be extremely disappointed when it doesn't go exactly as planned

A female's point of view. <br />
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Well, the important thing to never give up. I believe that it will happen for you and soon. Also I was nineteen when I had my first kiss. It was okay, but it wasn't what i expected. i had very high hopes for it. But, the thing about me is that I am a realist so I knew that there was a possibility that i wouldn't be what i expected. So, I wasn't too disappointed. Another thing I am twenty-eight now and I have kissed few more guys and honestly I still don't see what all the fuss is about. Personally I preferr a nice strong hug.

Not to belittle other people's experiences but I didn't kiss a girl until this year and I'm now 41. It was and is great and just goes to show it will happen eventually, although I hope you guys don't have to wait as long as I did. We're going steady now and I took her to meet my parents for Valentine's. There's stress for you. I wish you all all the best

When I was younger, I was this ugly child with side burns, an uni brow, glasses and braces. It's probably not even funny how much people made fun of me. But I learned an important lesson that I cherish with all my heart: be with the people who see you for who you really are, not just your looks. Now that I'm older and ten times prettier, I still haven't kissed anyone, because I'm waiting for someone to love me for me. If no girl has kissed you, then the right girl has not come by or took the chance to know you. Either way, it makes the wait even more worth it. Don't sell yourself so easily, she's out there.

i was 25 when i first kissed a girl -- i was picky to the point of self-denial.<br />
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yes, it was amazing. and it's worth waiting for, if that's part of why you waited so long. there are many reasons why you might be waiting, friend, so i'll just comment on one.<br />
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if you're waiting, like i did, because you wanted to wait for the perfect kiss, i hope you will come to the same realization as i did that the perfect kiss is all about you aligning the stars in your head -- not about waiting for the stars to align themselves for you.<br />
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a great first kiss is about how you prepare yourself to feel inside when it happens, not about how you prepare the situation on the outside to look like. i struggled for years because -- in all my strangeness, i wanted mine to LOOK like a hollywood movie, and in the end what ended up mattering much more was nothing of the sort.<br />
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in my humble opinion, a kiss is something you give more than it is something you receive -- and the joy in it is how much of yourself you give in the kiss.<br />
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i wish you the most incredibly romantic 1st kiss ever!

Well at least we have something in common, I haven't had mine and I am going to be 25 in July.