I liked this guy at my school for a long time. One of my closest friends who were close friends with him told him I liked him. My friend after I had asked him said, "Why don't you go talk to him and find out x)" I automatically thought the guy I liked was in to me too. I kept asking what he said but kept saying the same thing. I got tired of repeating myself and got super angry at him for not telling me. Then my friend says "Okay you know what, he said no! You happy now?" Turns out that my friend had told some of my other friends but told them to not tell me. The thing is...He told them that my crush said he liked me and thought I was cute but I was too shy. So I didn't know what to believe. This one girl that I knew found out all of this and told me "You know what? let's get to the bottom of this situation" and asked him if he liked me or not and I found out today he had said he didn't like me. I told one of my bestfriends what he said and she said "Oh yeah I know what he said" and then she said "I'm not sure how you're going to handle this but..." and what she is telling me is from the guy that asked my crush in the first place . She said my crush told my guy friend in these exact words "I wouldn't date her even if she had Kim Kardashian's behind (A.S.S)and chest (T.I.T.S)" and she knew he said this for a whole week but no one told me anything until today! I'm just so heartbroken and sad and angry and I feel so ugly and naive. I just hate my self on a scale from 1-100 it's a 100! I never knew how cruel people could be until now. I feel ugly and just so unattractive and so heartbroken.
SoCalAMT SoCalAMT
18-21, F
2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

By no means am I justifying what your friend did, but I probably would have done the same in his shoes. It's not easy delivering news like that to someone you care about. If this guy you have a crush on is gonna be a shallow arsehole, then he lost out on something amazing, NOT you! Just remember you don't need another person to justify your own existence.

Wow.. that guys is an *******... Maybe he deserves we girls if he said that to you. Leave him your better off with better guys than him I assure you. Even I earned that the hard way. Some guys aren't ******** or mean or pervy you just have to dig up the right one. Some guys like me would love girls the way they are not physical features. You will fins that guy one day, if you wanna message me I'll be your friend. I'm here to help you trust me