My Daughter Doesn't Speak To Me

I am the mother of 2 adult children. My son 40 years old, married with 3 kids. My son is from my first marriage, and my husband raised him since he was under a year old. My husband an I decided to have another child(my husbands only biological child) so, our daughter is now 29years old, with a son 3years old and she is pregnant now, she is having a girl in october. So, when our daughter got pregnant with her 1st baby, we were so excited, because she had a hard time conciving, so the entire time of her first pregnancy,Her and I talked every day. I live in fla. and she was living in n.j. I went up to n.j. for her baby shower, and our relationship was very strained the entire time I was there. She told me the day before I went up there, she say she would be guarded.. I couldn't understand why she was acting this way towards me.I staded with my daughter and her husband that trip. My daughter and her husband were sending me very clear messages, that they were uncomfortable, with my stay. Left for home, and I cried all the way home.Got home and talked with my husband about the trip, so he called our daughter, to see what the problem was. our daughter told my husband lies as to what happined while I was there, and the problems began then. we went up to n.j. in jan. after her son was born, and we were told,if my husband or I show up at here house, she would call the police.went home broken hearted, my husband and I have not been able to talk to her for 3 1/2 years! and we don't know why! This situation has hurt us and again,,, we don't know why.
lindaabeck lindaabeck
56-60, F
1 Response May 8, 2012

Sorry to hear this, so sorry.