I May Finish This Later..I get it from my family I think.
I always was kind of a quiet girl I personally don't think it's a problem, it's other people who do and why i seem to care is beyond me. Being quiet does NOT mean I lack confidence. Talking about things that bother me does NOT help me through them. I don't normally talk a lot it's difficult for me to put things into words. I'm more visual than auditory. (which is why I can express myself in written form much more clearly than verbally.)
Women can be visual too. I sometimes wonder if it's the Aspergers or not.
I am not bipolar or anything it's Autism I find it irritating when people who don't know what they're talking about try to tell me I have bipolar when it's not true. If you don't have a psych degree don't tell me what I "have". :P It irritates the crap out of me.
I was actually quite curious as a youngster and when ever I would ask a question or something I always got either no answer or "none of your business" frankly I got sick of it.
Neither of my parents are really all that social they both lack social skills and I wonder somehow if it affected the three of us. (my siblings and me)
As a woman it seems to me like I either pushing the man away or am too needy there seems to be no inbetween here.
I tend to overthink and analyze myself into a corner where I don't even know what to do.
People just think that I don't like people because I don't talk a lot, if you stammered like an idiot you wouldn't want to talk a lot either.
wack1985 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 May 22, 2012