Today marks 74 days since I quite smoking...and they have been the hardest 74 days of my life. I tried the patch initially, but it gave me nightmares so I stopped the patch and have been without help since. I think my major problem is that my girlfriend (who lives with me) is also quitting. We have both been at eachothers throats since the day we quit....we try to give eachother space since we know we are both on edge, but it seems like we are constantly fighting......what should i do!?!