I Rant

The Room Mate...

By: tkroach

Written on October 1st, 2011

Everything I say or do seems to be wrong to her, take last night for example, I spent the whole day cleaning, done all her washing and she came in, sat on the couch with her laptop, didn't ask if i needed help, never mind a thank you. i had to go on my head phones to listen to the music I was already playing before she came home, because she wants to listen to her music. By the way, I never get a chance to listen to the music I want as it's crap in her mind. Has it ever crossed her mind that I find her music dreadful to listen to? I tap my fingers QUIETLY to a tune and get my head bitten off, but if I say something back, she shouts at me and makes me feel in the wrong? She wants to go to bed, so i have to because she has to have perfect silence, but when I want to go to sleep and she doesn't, do I get peace? Fat chance! I look at her "funny" and suddenly I have attitude? TAKE A ******* LOOK IN THE MIRROR! Or just LISTEN to yourself! I'm going ******* nuts. Who the **** does she think she is? Is it any wonder I want to go to London to get away from her? She needs to wake up and realize that this world does not revolve around her. I hope on some level she reads this to know how much of a ***** she is. I'm always wrong with her, even when I try to explain myself she gets all pissy. I can't even say something to her about it, she'll just have a tantrum and turn it around on me. It's happened before. And she's horrible to my dog and she's supposed to be all for the animals being a vegetarian and all? But again, not like i can say anything. Anyway, better stop typing as her royal ******* highness wants to go to bed...

By: tkroach

Age: 16-17 , Female

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4 responses

ikiaap

You should tell her that you are not happy with the situation and explain what your feelings are. Don't let her be patronizing and stand up for yourself. IF she is really your friend then she will care about your feelings and respect you as well.

Oct 14, 2011
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Abyss25

This is a good rant.

I think a lot of people, including myself can relate to this. When some people just annoy the **** out of you. You should probably stand up for yourself. If she expects you to be quiet when she wants to sleep and not the other way around, thats just unreasonable, never mind you doing the dishes and all that.

If you just cant get along you really shouldn't be living together, thats just toxic. Coming home to a situation like that is not a good thing and that can really bring you down, you should fix that, one way or another.

Oct 1, 2011
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- tkroach
  you are right, and i have bought it up many of times but she makes me feel i'm in the wrong. it really is toxic and it's really just until I can afford to move. We do get along, we are best friends that's why we decided to move in together, but this is becoming a regular thing. I'm no angel either, but i make an effort. I guess you don't really know someone until you live with them. She is very patronizing and makes me feel very small, I don't really know what to do as I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I can't keep living this way.
  
  Oct 1, 2011
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- Abyss25
  You are best friends. I didn't get that from your story.
  If you want to keep her as a friend you should move out, or she should. Or the other option is for things to change. An honest conversations maybe? telling each other the truth and whats bothering you, explaining that this cant go on?
  
  Oct 1, 2011
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