How a Woman Can Live Out a Rape Fantasy Safely, Legally, and For Real
Contrary to what you see in movies or on TV, rape is usually not violent or physically harmful, nor is it perpetrated by men who need to express power or dominance, as the psychobabble people insist. The vast majority of rapes are committed for one purpose - an ******. Hollywood would never make a movie about what most rapist are like because that would make for a rather boring story. The Hollywood version is an evil man who overpowers otherwise strong women and forces himself on her with weaponry while muffling her high volume screams, then beats her up or even kills her. Although a small number of men include violence as part of the excitement, far most rapes are quick, opportunistic encounters that are much less physically demanding, and have far less impact on a woman’s body then normal consenting sex. In fact, in some cases the physical impact is so low that the female may not even be aware that her body has been used.
Such is the case with the most common form of sexual exploitation of children – opportunistic ******. The current estimate is that one out of every four girls under the age of 12 are victims of opportunistic ******, many of whom are either unsure or even unaware that an episode of sexual exploitation took place. The grandfather who sits the little girl on his lap and **** in his pants is more common than families want to think about. Or the uncle who feels up his little niece under the guise of a “tickle fit”. Most ****** is so benign that it goes unnoticed even to the girl. Yet it happens every day, everywhere, and it is genuine rape. There is no other word for it, and it is the most common form of rape.
Most stranger rape is also subtle and benign. The most common form of stranger rape is manifested as “prolonged frotteurism”. Frotteurism is a paraphilia in which a person (usually male) is sexually aroused by the uninvited touching of a victim (usually female). Frotteurism is usually perpetrated in a clandestine manner with the victim remaining unaware of the assault. It is most arousing for the attacker when the touching is on naked skin and involves a sexually enticing body part, such as a breast or buttock. Of course, groping a breast or butt while keeping the victim unaware is near to impossible, so the frotteurist usually goes after thighs. Thigh skin is also quite sexually arousing, and is commonly exposed during summer months. Frotteurists go on “binges” where they will spend hours walking past bare legged women in short skirts and “accidently” brush a hand against her thigh, or ride crowded subway cars and busses where such “inadvertent” touching can be disregarded as unavoidable. The binge usually ends when the frotteurist is so highly aroused that ************ becomes more appealing than continuing the binge.
In the most prolific cases men use frotteurism as their only source of sexual release. Such men usually condition themselves to become preorgasmic just from the arousal of frotteurism. In this state ****** can be induced by merely pressing his erection against his hand or a soft ob
Frotteurists will always take the opportunity for penetrative rape should such an opportunity arise. Some frotteurists graduate to this level by searching the streets after bar time looking for highly intoxicated females. A woman so drunk or stoned that she passes out in an alleyway is very rare, but it does happen on occasion, and these men are so addicted to these opportunities that they comb the streets night after night hoping for that off-chance. Such a lifestyle requires the perpetrator to invest the majority of his life in pursuit of an opportunity that knocks once or twice a year.
Interestingly, there is a surprisingly large subculture of women with a so-called “rape fantasy”. Such women possess a paraphilia in which they become highly aroused at the notion of being touched, fondled, or even penetrated without consent. I put “rape” in quotes above because the fantasy does not generally involve force and is not perpetrated against the female’s will. Such women find being frotteurized sexually stimulating. In fact, some women with a rape fantasy will deliberately put themselves in situations where they become the “victim” of frotteurism. I know this because I’m one of them. Participating in their own frotteurism is particularly appealing because it is safe and totally anonymous. Frotteurism is almost always done in public, frequently in dense crowds, eliminating any danger of harm or overt rape. Moreover, the female is in complete control. She knows if the “attacker” does anything more than she wants, she need only “become aware” of the frotteurism and he will run for the hills. The result is a very titillating form of mutual stalking. Most women who participate in this activity would indeed allow themselves to be penetrated by the attacker if they knew it was safe and legal. However, social norms and the danger of harm keep the rape fantasy at the level of opportunistic groping.
Recently, however, there has appeared a new venue for acting on a rape fantasy for women, while all but guaranteeing frotteurists the ultimate of sexual opportunity. The so-called “blackout hunt” is a sex party like no other. These events take place in large lightless warehouses that have been structured with lots of nooks and crannies, hiding places for “attackers”. A small number of women (5-6) and a large number of men (30-40) are released naked in the pitch black maze, and the men literally hunt the women down. The sex that ensues is quick, ferocious, and extremely intense, especially for the females. To assure the important “safe” mindset for the women, each participant is told that the if the word “stop” is uttered by a woman all activity everywhere in the room must stop immediately. And if the word “help” is said, the lights come on and the bouncers spring into action. I’ve participated in about a dozen blackout hunts and I never heard either word ever uttered.
Men who have a frotteurism paraphilia will find this venue to be exceedingly arousing, and some will ********* before even having a chance to penetrate a female. Women with a rape fantasy will likely enjoy one continuous ******. Obviously blackout hunts are not for everyone. At the very least, all sex is bareback, as it is virtually impossible to enforce a “condom” rule in total darkness, especially when each woman is mobbed by 10-12 males. Blackout hunts are short events, typically lasting less than an hour. By that time all the men have ********** at least once, and the women are totally exhausted physically and emotionally. Another factor many men find uncomfortable is the enormous volume of ***** that is deposited literally everywhere. A typical vagina can hold about 15 mL of *****, but a woman will typically take about 20 cumshots vaginally during that hour. That calculates to 100 mL, or about ½ cup. Thus, almost a ½ cup of ***** backflows from each woman and gets all over her and all over the cots and couches. If there are 6 women, that calculates to 600 mL of *****, or roughly ½ liter!
As a sidenote – blackout hunts are illegal in many states. To my knowledge they are held legally in New Jersey, New York, and frequently held by a sex club in Toronto.