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The Meaning Of My Online Name.

By: Hongruilin
Written on November 16th, 2012
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • djtiger

    ahhhhhh....I found the story...lol....very nice! I Love the name BTW!

    Apr 15
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    • Hongruilin

      Sheesh! Took ya long enough! Lol :-P

      Oh, and thanks!

      Apr 15
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  • MaryJanine

    Right back at you. I have had at least three dozen comments on my Online name and after six explanations I just don't reply to those type of requests - although I DO read anything sent to me or comments on my stories. Thanks for being someone of a like mind.

    Apr 14
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    • Hongruilin

      You're most welcome. I can totally understand not replying/explaining it anymore. It can become somewhat monotonous.

      Apr 14
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  • crotus

    A great mystery has just been cleared up for me... Thanks for posting this.

    Apr 14
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    • Hongruilin

      You're welcome sweetie! Any other "great mysteries" that need clearing up? lol

      Apr 14
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    • crotus

      Yes I suppose so, but am unsure where to begin... You seem to be a total package of mysteries!

      Apr 14
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    • Hongruilin

      Just the way I like to be ...

      *nictates*

      Apr 14
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    • crotus

      Omg, so you're actually from another p-planet?!?

      Apr 14
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    • Hongruilin

      Shhhh!!! Don't say it so loudly or the men with white coats are gonna come take me away for examination and experimentation!!

      Apr 14
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    • crotus

      Well now, we can't have that, can we... ;-)

      Apr 14
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    • Hongruilin

      No, we can't! I'm pretty sure they'll take away my internet access.

      Apr 14
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  • wildbruce

    I love how you dance with words as Fred and Ginger on clouds :)

    Mar 14
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    • Hongruilin

      *smiles*

      Thank you very much. You're too kind. :-)

      Mar 14
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    • wildbruce

      Just observant ;))

      Mar 14
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    • Hongruilin

      Maybe. ;-)

      Mar 14
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  • Experienced321

    unique and beautiful...and a mind it suites quite well...

    Mar 11
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    • Hongruilin

      *blushes*

      Aww ... That you. :-)

      Mar 11
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    • Experienced321

      you love it and you know it....and you deserve it...

      Mar 11
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    • Hongruilin

      I never said I didn't like it, I do however honest blush when complimented. :-P

      Mar 11
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    • Experienced321

      well then, we must keep you blushing then...i'm your huckleberry...

      Mar 11
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  • HardingP119

    How wonderful. Thank you elaborating and excellent choice of screen name

    Mar 6
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    • Hongruilin

      It is my pleasure to elaborate, on many topics - often to the chagrin of others, haha. I kinda really love this one though. Thanks for taking the time to read and learn more.

      Mar 6
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    • HardingP119

      The pleasure is all mine, HongRuLin.

      Mar 6
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    • Hongruilin

      Awww, thanks!

      *huggles*

      Mar 6
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  • redmaple

    One mystery leads to another, very much your style:)

    Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      I'm so very pleased you like my style. However inquiring minds want to know what mystery this lead to? :-)

      Mar 5
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    • redmaple

      If they read your post they may discover what I was referring to.

      Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      And if they were very tired and needed some help?

      Mar 5
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    • redmaple

      They would wonder how it sounded like your real name, and what that might be? But they respect your privacy and really don't want to know.

      Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      Ohhhh ... Lol ... Yes, I suppose they would. And yes, I should have been able to guess that one. :-)

      Mar 5
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  • Kinkreader

    They certainly do describe your personality pretty accurately...as you are honorable, very intelligent, a little biting (which I love..when you nibble me ;-)), beautiful, precious...a treasure, soft, gentle and sweet...so very sweet. :-)

    Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      *blushes hardcore and stammers thank you*

      Mar 5
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    • Kinkreader

      *smiles* WOW! Scored 1st "Hardcore" Blush!
      No thanks necessary, my dear...merely stating the obvious facts.
      *wraps arms around, hugging tightly, kisses cheek feeling the warmth of the blush on lips*
      :-*

      Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      *smiles fondly and his the stuffing out of ya*

      Mar 5
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    • Kinkreader

      That's one hell of a "hiss" to make my stuffing come out! ;-D

      Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      Stupid iPad thumb typing. I meant of course hug. :-P

      Mar 5
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    • Kinkreader

      ;-P

      Mar 5
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  • akindheart

    You win the prize for the neatest name! That is pretty cool I think.

    Mar 5
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    • Hongruilin

      Yay!

      *does a little happy dance at winning the prize*

      Thanks! I kind of really love it. :-)

      Mar 5
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    • HardingP119

      I agree too. The thought that has gone in to creating a name... deserves our praises.

      Mar 7
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    • Hongruilin

      Thanks you guys! :-)

      Mar 7
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  • habeant

    Now I know ...

    Mar 3
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    • Hongruilin

      Wow ... You went all the way back to read this story?

      Mar 3
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    • habeant

      You interest me. Your name is a very personal thing. I like the thought that you put into it. It's another interesting fact about you. :)

      Mar 3
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    • Hongruilin

      I'm really flattered. It makes me smile that you did take the time to investigate/read it/learn more about me. Thank you. :-)

      *huggles*

      Mar 3
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    • habeant

      I'm flattered that you're flattered. You make me smile a mile like a horny crocodile! You're welcome!
      *fondles*

      Mar 4
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    • Hongruilin

      *laughs and smacks ya*

      Behave mister! :-P

      Mar 4
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    • habeant

      I'm cyber horny and you're my fun project. :)

      Mar 4
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    • Hongruilin

      LOL! I'm a "project" now am I? ;-)

      Mar 4
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  • privatelyanonymous

    Finally! I found it! And thanks for writing this and not answering my question so that I had to scroll through thousands of stories just to get to this one ;) So I promised not to divulge your name but since you've said your Chinese name, I'll just go ahead and mention the English translation ok, Kemosabe? ... Ooops, did I let the cat outta the bag?

    Feb 20
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    • Hongruilin

      Hey! There isn't THOUSANDS of stories, I don't even think I've hit the 80 mark yet. :-P besides, I did tell you it was one of the first ones I had written ... I mean, poor man, had to scroll and scroll and scroll ... Is your finger okay? It must be tired from all that work. Do you need me to kiss it better? ;-)

      Feb 21
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    • privatelyanonymous

      Kiss it better? I'm gonna save that one for later :p

      Feb 21
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  • Semblanceofhope

    Very detailed and nicely written. I have a Chinese name too. "Hong se", means "the colour red", so that's what I relate "hong" with whenever I hear that word. So you are Ms Red in Chinese! Thank you for this story.

    Jan 30
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    • Hongruilin

      Ah, except this particular Hong is not the character for red, common mistake. It's Hong shui de hong. Shui meaning water, hongshui meaning flood. :-)

      Jan 30
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    • Semblanceofhope

      Ah, thank you for correcting and educating me! Well, "Ms Flood" doesn't sound right lol. Best not to make translations where names where names are concerned.

      Jan 30
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    • Hongruilin

      Haha, yeah - it just doesn't have the same ring. I have a book I love called Wild Swans. Their last name is Hong with the same tone, but a different character, representing a wild swan. I kept trying to ask my husband to change ours to that one because it was prettier, but no go. :-)

      Jan 30
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  • redmaple

    Thanks for pointing my attention to this story. Honorable Intelligent Sweetie!

    Jan 27
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    • Hongruilin

      *laughing*

      Thanks you so much for reading it.

      Jan 27
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  • LysanderFremont

    Much input has been acquired! Only cause you've put so much insight and meaning behind your words.

    Plus, learning Cantonese? What?! Must learn more! MUST LEARN MORE!!!

    Speaking of which, there is a costume I've got to work on... sorry, random thought.

    Jan 21
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    • Hongruilin

      A costume? What? Now I MUST LEARN MORE!!!

      Jan 21
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    • LysanderFremont

      Well, let me tell you a little bit of a thing called Cosplay... >D

      "Costume Play" - An event that people come to, dressed up in costume to imitate a character in a video game, anime, comic, etc.

      Anyone can do it and it is a fun time for all however, my personal rule is...

      For a great Cosplay, you need to have the body for it. And not only the body, but also the attitude and the movements.

      So I've got to get back in shape and well... find a character I'd like to represent.

      Jan 21
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  • soulrunher

    Well I found this one too, which answered one of my questions. :) Thanks

    Jan 7
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    • Hongruilin

      No problem ... anytime! :-)

      Jan 7
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  • diggler

    I need a gps just to find my way around your user name.:) You really put a lot of time,and effort into it.I suspect this is yet another reflection of your personality?

    Dec 7, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      It is a reflection of my personality - yes. But I had the name before EP - we were studying Mandarin Chinese awhile ago and have since switched to Cantonese.

      Dec 7, 2012
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    • diggler

      It's very cool.

      Dec 7, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Thank ya!

      Dec 7, 2012
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  • leantannedguy

    That is really cool. Almost everything I've learned about you so far is very deep. You are a complex person....btw - don't change a thing!

    Have a great weekend!

    Dec 7, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Thank you, I think that's one of the nicest compliments you could have given me - that I am a complex person. I would had to be someone who was easily figured out and quickly forgotten.

      You have a great weekend too! Have fun skiing. (I think you said you were skiing again this weekend ... lol).

      Dec 7, 2012
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  • solarstruck

    Cool. tx, hope the rest of your day remains to be the best day ever.

    Nov 28, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Aww, thanks! I hope so too ... though it was kinda a yesterday thing, which has crossed into a today thing as I haven't been to bed yet.

      Nov 28, 2012
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    • solarstruck

      dont stay up too late......lol. unless of course you are too 'inspired' by all the EP'ers.

      Nov 28, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Haha ... ah ... are you EP stalking me? lol. And it's too late for that, I have had the EP addiction monkey firmly strapped to my back for awhile.

      Nov 28, 2012
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    • solarstruck

      nope, dont stalk, i just follow very closely.
      I enjoy conversations with open minded intellectual and beautiful women, you happen to fit into that category. I have a meeting in about one hours time so will have to converse again at another stage. Enjoy the evening/morning. It is 11:28AM in south africa so it is almost lunch time.
      Thanks for the nice smile. cheers. C

      Nov 28, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Have a great day! I look forward to conversing with you at a future date/time.

      Nov 28, 2012
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  • thenaughtybartender

    that was a detailed explanation... i wud rather call u lean or lin

    Nov 22, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      You may call me whatever you wish. Unless it's mean, lol.

      Nov 22, 2012
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    • thenaughtybartender

      i wont call u that or anything like that.. how do u ur name u??

      Nov 22, 2012
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  • kbgloves1

    Very interesting. My big sis has lived in Beijing for years. I see her about once a year. I came up with kbgloves when I was 19 or 20 - Kid Gloves, punch drunk boxer. At the time, the Russian Secret Service was the KGB, so I added the "B" so I could be KBG. Not very interesting,,,

    I have a suggestion - why dont you copy and paste your explanation to a Word document and save it in your computer. If you have to explain again, you'll have it handy

    Nov 21, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      It's an interesting story, I love hearing the stories behind people's online names.

      Thanks for the suggestion. I did save the explanation, as a Pages document though (mac person). I'm lazy though, and usually just refer them here now. haha

      Nov 21, 2012
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  • simplygirl

    So cool! I tried to learn Mandarin a few years ago. I get the concepts, but nothing else really stuck, lol. Awesome choice of a name!

    Nov 20, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Thanks! I love it.

      Nov 20, 2012
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    • simplygirl

      You have a name that sounds beautiful and means something to you...who wouldn't!!

      Nov 20, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      :-)

      Nov 20, 2012
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  • AllStarcrushNate

    Ooooooh. I see. Yeah, I tried a little Chinese some years ago. All I really learned was those tonal inflections, lol. Chinese is very difficult. I'll stick to my Spanish, lol!

    Nov 17, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      espanola es muy bonito

      Nov 17, 2012
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    • AllStarcrushNate

      Bonito? No, es sexy! Y caliente ;-)

      Nov 17, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Je pense que le francais est beaucoup plus sexy!

      Nov 17, 2012
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    • AllStarcrushNate

      Si! Franco es sexy tambien!

      Nov 17, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Je parle francais, mai je seulement "bluff" avec espagnol.

      Nov 17, 2012
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  • Stinkypantsmagy

    Its nice to meet you. I would have responded to your email but Ep says i'm not allowed to write to you. so I have to use the next best thing. Anyways I hope you are finding Ep helpful. How are things going with your friend and with you and your husband. If thats getting a little to personal I'm sorry, and in that case you don't have to answer.

    Steve

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      Why does EP say your not allowed to write me? That's odd. It's not too personal a question, I posted a personal story after all. Things are okay, better. I have gotten some great perspective lately.

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • Stinkypantsmagy

      your account says you can not except emails from adult members. I think it has to do with yur account settings. Great, there are a lot of people on here that are willing and able to listen and offer advise, and there are alot of people on here that are just here for sex. I'm pretty much here to make friends and give advise and help as much as i can.

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • Hongruilin

      That's really funny ... because I have gotten a lot of emails from people I would consider adult members, haha. So you couldn't email me at all unless I changed the settings? What if I mail you first?

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • Stinkypantsmagy

      I tried responding to the email you sent and ep say's I'm not allowed to respond, I have to be in your circle.

      Nov 17, 2012
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