Angry At Something He Didn't Do

My husband calls every female "honey" and I don't like it. I look at all of them as if I might kill them, but I remain calm and indifferent. I once dreamed that my husband slept with my sister. When I woke up I was very angry at him. I knew it never happened, but I couldn't shake off the anger. I reacted to him as if it really happened even though it didn't. I had no anger towards my sister at all though, I know she has no interest in him. I know my husband isn't shopping for other women, I just don't like how he interacts with them, it could make them have other ideas than what he has. I'm over it now, the dream, not his attitude towards women. I will have to hurt someone, sometimes he feels that his life is in danger when I confront him about who he was talking to, but I wouldn't kill him, wouldn't even slap him, the best revenge would be to let him go live with the other woman. I've never met anyone as gentle as I, as accepting, as peaceful, as trustworthy, loyal, and no one loves him like I do. If he needs to find that out, then I'll let him go. I'm not going to fight over what he chooses for himself. If any female pursues him without his interest, though, I will harm her. She'd better gain his interest before I find out, otherwise when I do, I'll politely confront her and she has one chance to back off. Lol. :P