I Realized That...

Not everything is worth crying for and the majority of the tears wasted or wasted upon the most stupidest things that won't even matter three years from now. 

The thing is, everybody is going to hurt you at some point one way or another.  It doesn't matter if they love you, hate you or really don't care for you.  Everybody is going to hurt you.  You just have to decide who's worth the pain and who isn't. 

Another thing I realized that was very life-changing and, I have to admit, I learned the hard way, was that you can't count on anybody to make you happy.  You can't rely on anybody to save you.  They couldn't make you happy and they couldn't save you even if they wanted to.  The truth is, the only one who you've got and you can rely on completely is yourself.  In other words, you're your own best friend, your own price charming, your knight in shining armor, whatever you want to call it.  Everybody is going to let you down at some point.  You can only rely on yourself and only yourself. 

I know it sounds like a really harsh point of view for one to have, but if you really think about it, it's the painful truth.  I will admit, if I realized this truth sooner instead of always trying to sugarcoat things for myself, it would have spared me a lot of pain and a lot of disappointment. 

deadmoon deadmoon
22-25, F
3 Responses Jul 26, 2010

my gosh.. i am realizing it at my age.. i wish i realized it when i was your age.
do what you have to do, don't expect, so you'll be surprised, not disappointed.

i agree with you<br />
I have the same ideas

I tend to agree with you....unfortunately....<br />
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Penny<br />