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Why can't I seem to truly connect with someone? A deep, genuine connection. Not just someone to chat with, but someone I can really feel like I can be myself with. The more people that talk to me in daily life, the more alone I feel. Maybe one day...

Moonjava Moonjava 26-30, F 32 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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Hi, I would love to be your friend and chat to you as I am very good at listening to people.

hey if you need someone to listen

A true story in my life. 6 years ago, I met a Turkish girl in Italy. Her quiet, contemplative gaze caught my attention. I spoke to her and it turned into a conversation that stretched over the whole three days we were there. I felt like I had met someone who truly understands me, a mirror image of myself. That I was able to be say what’s on my mind without worrying about whether it would make sense or would it be understood. It was pure excitement, exhilaration and joy.

We spoke of philosophy, literature, politics, travel, music, history… I remember the times with her like yesterday. I was not physically attracted to her. Yet, it was pure delight and I experienced happiness beyond all measures. From then, I never doubt that two people brought up in vastly different culture, language, religion and education could be friends for life simply through the sharing of meaningful conversations.

Do not give up, there is always someone here for you to talk to and if you start to think positive, that right person will come in time. Many things in life seem to drop us down into a depression or hurt us and effect us for life. I have been wherre you are, and let me tell you, the only way out of the muck and mire us up. so, what is it that is making you so sad and lonely, why do you have to compare yourself to others? You are a unique and wonderful person, do not let anyone tell you any different! Things will change for you I promise, just trust your gut and let your heart lead you. Think of a quarter and an airplane; if your quarter is your focus and problems in life, look to an airplane and think how big God is! If you change the thoughts and thinking process of negative things to possitive stuff you will get through this; I am here if you need a friend! hugs, this too shall pass, just have hope; Hang on, Pain Ends (HOPE).)

i feel the same way :( sucks!

yesss!!! me too.. it's weird that iam sooo emotionally distant or maybe emotionally unavailable or maybe im unconsciously picky. but the more i make friends with people. the more i feel isolated. its really weird. i don't really love to talk about their topics like gossiping. I love to do stuff, like crafting and just going here and there. but its so hard to find that friend that i can jump to the moon with. i miss the times when im bullied and the freako, but i have a bestie that i can have a blast with. they are now in other part of the worlds. so, here i am again, scouting for a replacement. meanwhile, i just do my things with people that i feel extremely awkward with.

or maybe im just in the wrong major? cuz i just knew that i love designs and naturally gifted, and i pretty suck in studying theories. i am now a business student. but the practical projects is fun though.

THE END

:-( Maybe one day

if you need to talk to somenone, i'm here, seriously. you dont have to feel alone there are so many people in the world that you can make good friends :) send me a message if you want to talk! :)

Feelings are mutual. Sadly, I seem to be too sarcastic or indifferent. So I don`t reach the point of deep connection, that I miss much.

u can be my friend...i am a lonely guy....

I can be your friend too!

loneliness is a state of mind you can be surrounded by friends in a lonely cottage if you are at one with nature and you can be the loneliest person in the world in a city of several million people. Read the 10 life laws and add your own examples. Life law no 1 is "you either get it or you don't. I describe this by two examples when Decca Records rejected the Beatles saying groups were on the way out they didn't get it neither did <br />
General Custer when he lost the battle of the little big horn saying we've got these injuns on the run. Loneliness can be ended with a smile or a kind deed or word. Go out there and tell the world you are here beautiful and waiting to share all that you are and can become.

its because there is a lot of people who share the things you have gone through and understand it all too well.

I find that people here are much easier to talk to then the people in my life.

It’s hard making friends when you have lost them all, due to ex-wife. She had 3 affairs that I know of during or 17 years of marriage. To justify her actions and make ever one think it’s my fault, she told lies about me to all our friends and mine. It’s not enough for her to humiliate me, physically and emotionally abusive to me. She had to kick me out so she could marry the one shed been having the affairs with. Now I’m alone and my family believes her lies too.

looks like you ahve done just fine in conencting with friends java ;O)

Thank you for your kind words.

Thank you for your kind words.

live with clear eyes and with a loving and open heart. i dont know you. but i care.

i really need a friend to im so lonely i aint really depressed or anything people say im stupid....dumb,retarded i just need a friend to talk to and i need some to have a good long maybe short chat i need to vent to someone you might be them but you dont wanna hear about my life it sucks thats probaly my whole life story

i really need a friend to im so lonely i aint really depressed or anything people say im stupid....dumb,retarded i just need a friend to talk to and i need some to have a good long maybe short chat i need to vent to someone you might be them but you dont wanna hear about my life it sucks thats probaly my whole life story

Indeed, not alone.....i am the same way , too. I have no true friends in real life..all my close friends are here, on EP.

Glad to know we're not alone. Finding like-minded, genuine people is not very easy, but fortunately we have an outlet like EP to communicate with each other (:

yes that is like me i cant seem to connect with ppl on a deep leave who wants to. i need that

Hi Ivan,<br />
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I don't have myspace...sorry, but I would like to chat with you. You're not alone. *Hug*

look if you even need someone to talk to just send me an invite in myspace if you have one my myspace is ivan.lm85@yahoo.es if you dont just comment or chat with me i need someone to talk really deap to same as you and i mena foreal i got in love and i wanna die so i feel really really bad.

look if you even need someone to talk to just send me an invite in myspace if you have one my myspace is ivan.lm85@yahoo.es if you dont just comment or chat with me i need someone to talk really deap to same as you and i mena foreal i got in love and i wanna die so i feel really really bad.

Thanks Ms. Godspeedyoublackemperor ;-p<br />
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I sometimes need to hear that I am not completely alone!!

I feel that way sometimes aswell but you never know whos around the corner.

well we are starting to connect so ther is light at the end of the tunnel

Thanks everybody!<br />
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I feel a little more hopeful now. There has to be hope, right? I just feel so out of loop with everyone... like my mind is in another dimension or something. <br />
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Thanks again :)