Key Word Wanted Not Needed

 i used to think i NEEDED a relationship to be  whole . now i know i dont need it  and i actually dont want it until God puts someone in my plate ... so to speak ... and  i know who  i want and he lives forever and a day away ( in Iowa ) but i know God will send him to me one day . I just think its  so great to be independent  even if i  have  a chip on my shoulder . not that its healthy but its working for me right now . Ive become so assertive .. and i am so proud of myself for that Wow  i keep going off topic .. But anyways yes Wanting is Good  NEEDING Is bad its co dependent I wish i could put my diagram in here that Melanie had me draw ^ I learned so much from her shes  Great !!

starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
26-30, F
1 Response Mar 19, 2007

I really like your story. I am alone right now too and I hate it. On the other hand I don't want to be with someone just for the sake of having a relationship. I try to remind myself this is not the first time I have been alone and that I will survive. You have the right attitude about being on your own. Your story really makes a lot of sense and it has helped me realize that it is ok to be by myself. I agree that when my time comes God will send me the right person too. Thanks for your encouraging words.