rWould wearing one all the time make the hole gape? I have used a prostate massager( Eros) and worn it for a time and decide it was not enough. I also wanted something that felt better like the vibrator my wife uses on me. I kinda messed up and bought a 2.25 dia. butt plug and my vibrator is 2.0 inches. The extra quarter inch is very hard to get my hole to stretch. I have though about getting a short 1.75 inch vibrating plug to wear and use when I am filling my wife and to stimulate my prostate. What do you use or recommend?