I don't think 'society' is as general as most people assume it is. When living within a group of people that party there are different unwritten rules your friends ect expect you to live by. The same applies to living within a conservative straightlaced crowd; just different unwritten rules. I don't like any of them. Unwritten implies that you are being steered by manipulative means....social discomfort, peer pressure, glares. In general I don't like being steered= if I think you are trying to steer me, I will grab the reins and take you for a ride. You don't want that.