Why Did I Do It

my husband and myself have been married 1 year and it seems as if everything is getting worse rather then better.  we do not do anything together, when we make an attempt at it it turns out to be a disater. He is what you would call a single husband, or he is only married certain days of the week.  i honestly regret getting in to this situation. I want out of this situation soon, but right now its like we are dealing with it because i help him out and he helps me out. likely once we are both situation we will go our seprate ways.  I just hope the time comes soon.
anonymous0530 anonymous0530
26-30
4 Responses May 17, 2012

I can so relate to this.

Sorry you're having marrital problems. Pray to God to help you and your marriage, if you want to leave then it's your choice.

OH DEAR .WHERE ARE YOU FROM AND HIM.. GET OUT ..WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS PART TIME HUSBAND ,THEIR IS ALOT OF ******** WHO ARE MARRIED AND LIVE A SINGLE LIFE. DO NOT THINK TWICE ABOUT YOUR DECESION ....LIFE FLIES AND THEN YOU WILL REGRET IT .....

I was where you are and my advice to to get out now!! If you wait, things will get in the way, like kids, and force you to stay in the relationship. I which I would have left the relationship I'm in while I was broke and wouldn't have lost anything. I waited too long and the window of opporunity I had has closed. Don't let this happen to you.

I agree with the post above me! Get out now! I am coming up on my five year anniversary and instead of planning a vacation, I am planning how I am going to divide my finances between myself and her. Because I am so ready to be finished and have come to the conclusion that I would rather live on half my income by myself than my whole income with her. So my point is, it just becomes more and more complicated (true, I was just rambling then). My parents are real strong, judgemental Christians or I would have done this before now. You gotta learn to live for yourself at some point. I'm 29, hope I can figure it out soon. But you go! Leave now!

Stop telling her to leave! Why can't you just be mature and nice enough to work on things when things need working on. What's wrong with you?!