He came into my life at 19.  At 19, how the hell would I know what I would want out of life?  How would I know what qualities I would out of a partner for life? I married far too young, and it is one decision in my life I truly regret.  We did grow apart.  We wanted different things out of life, and we headed in different directions.  It's the one thing in life I truly regret. 

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2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

I also reget the decision that I made and didn't realize what a mess it was until it was too late. These days so many decisions that affect the rest of your life are forced on you at such an early age. Once you figure out that marriage is a bad idea you are too old and too invested in the marriage to do anything about it. It's a shame that men can't leave without any financial consequences, had that been the case I would have left years ago. Now I'm forced to stay in a relationship I don't want to be in.

Is he a man of God? Do the two of you pray? Prayer works wonders!!!

Reciting magic incantations (i.e. "prayers) to a non-existent magic deity in the sky doesn't do anything.