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First Love

First off I am a boy and it never occurred to me that i would be the one to regret what happened. Well anyways i was in love with this girl and we had been dating for a while and she was my first real relationship so i was head over heels for this girl. Well we were planning on having sex and i was excited because i was doing it with the intention of being with this girl "forever" and a part of me with her and her with me and i was happy at the fact that she chose me. I mean i wanted it to be perfect that i made sure we planned properly and do it on Valentine's Day, i know pretty cheesy but whatever. Then next thing you know we do it and less than a month later she cheats on me and breaks up with me saying we can be friends, and i was still in love with her so i was not mad and i was happy at the idea of being her friend. But next thing you know we have a fight because she got jealous of me talking to other girls. Now she wont talk to me or see me or anything. I mean it hurts a lot and considering that i shared so much with her and im a guy and i am afraid of telling anyone because you know its always the "girl who gets hurt not the guy".....so i have no one to really talk to which is why im on this website. I regret losing my virginity to this girl because that just caused me to build up so many feelings for her, but shes gone...and i don't know if i should try talking to her so i can understand why she did that to me or just let it go.....I feel like a huge wimp...but i just needed to tell someone about this even though its on the internet. Thanks for listening...or reading technically.
ugh1234567890 ugh1234567890 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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It is ok if u are a boy and not a girl... Hello U to have feelings, dreams, ideas and ilussions too... Being a boy do not make u not having a heart.... I understand what u must have been passing through... (and wow )u are surely the boy all the girls here telling their story would have loved loosing thir virginities with.... so their experiences wouldnt be the bad they are...And let me tell u that u have the right of feeling bad because u deserved better but still u deserve better than thinking about her or than wanting to look for her... Here outside there are lot of girls who would die for u and that would wait for u...do not change ur values and illusions and do not understimate urself keeping ur heart for her..... And no... u will not understand her because even she doesnt understand herself ( I think so) . If she'd do it then she would have know how to stay besides such a lovely boy. Now ... WAIT for the right girl and do not let urself down for a girl that doesnt deserve such a boy!

IM A GIRL, SORRY THAT HAPPEN, THIS STORY KINDA HELP ME WITH MY SITUATION, IN MY CASE I LOST MY V-CARD TO THIS GUY AND OUR RELATIONSHIP GOT STRONGER, WE THEN DATED FOR 2 MONTHS AND A HALF, THEN I CALLED IT QUITS BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO GET PREGNANT, I THOUGHT THT IF I BREAK THINGS OFF NICELY WE COULD JUST BE FRIENDS BUT MY MOTIVE BACK FIRED..SO I TRYED TO GET BACK WITH HIM BECUZ I RELIZED HOW MUCH I MISSED BEING WITH HIM BUT HE DIDNT WANT TO GET BACK WITH ME...ON TOP OF THAT HE TRIED TO TALK TO A NEW GIRL AND ON VALENTINES DAY HE BROUGHT HER SOMETHING AND TOLD ME HE NEVER LOVED ME...HE STARTED HAVING SEX WITH A FRESHMEN IN THE SCHOOL AND SHE WOULD SUCK HIM UP ON THE STAIRS...HE BASICALLY DID ALOT THINGS HE DIDNT WANT ME DOING WITH HER BECAUSE HE TOLD ME HE HAD RESPECT FOR ME. HE WAS A JUNIOR, I WAS A SENIOR, AND HIS NEW GIRL WAS A FRESHMEN.

thanks you for the help. it means a lot

lesson being sex is a big deal and in most cases there is nothing casual about sex. I'm sorry your feelings got hurt though, first love can be tough.