Where Did The Love Go ........... ??

Oh that I had the widom, now gained 20 yrs ago.......!
I shall state quite clearly, my wife is a great person, no mistake......... but I have watched over the years, we both have very, very little in common. I feel that we are both dis-connected from the other & if it was just the 2 of us we could part quite cleanly on friendly terms, however, that is not the situation, there are children involved which makes it diffcult.
I strongly feel that children MUST be able to enjoy their childhood as much as is possible, it is such a short & presious time.

Or is this all just trying to chase a mirage ???                                       I wish I knew.
4meiski 4meiski
46-50, M
2 Responses Jun 10, 2011

Just to add to this story (which I wrote sometime ago), It does look like my marrige is going down the tubes, with my wife of 21 years, telling me a fortnight ago, that she thinks we should seperate. My response , intialy slightly surprised, but to be honest, actualy a sense of relief !

Yes it is important for the children not to suffer from a broken marriage and they need their idyllic world which means they'll grow up so much better as adults.When they're older you may want to pursue separation etc with your spouse.