At some point or another we've all been rejected & have rejected someone. It is just the way things flow we cannot change the way others feel or the way we feel.
Most recently on a camping trip I rejected my friend Ramon. He is real nice & also not bad on the looks. I remember I had been mad most of the trip. It had rained, we had to wait inside our cars like an hour until it stop raining. The guyz being the macho mans they think they are didn't bother checking the weather channel like they promised they would. They just predicted sunny weather & since they said it they thought it must be so.
I was miserably cold, we where all sitting by the camp fire. No one else seemed to care it was cold, since they where all drunk. Me I was sober I was just to mad to drink. Ramon started apologizing for how things turned out, I shruged. Then he started to say how he wanted things to be nice enough to later ask me out. Now it was my turn to apologize, I told him I liked him as a friend but we couldn't date. That I just didn't want things to go wrong & then we wouldn't be friends anymore. Being drunk as he was he kept insisting we should anlist try & see how it could be. I tried diffrent ways of explaining to him we just couldn't date. That it wasn't him but me, he was just to good for me & he needed a nice girl not someone damaged like me.
Our conversation ended up bad, I was so frustrated I ended up crying. He got mad & got more drunk. The next day he pretended like he couldn't remember what happen the night before. When we came back home I talked to him on the phone more seriously. & he said he understood && that we where still friends but till this day things are weird. We don't really talk & hang like we us to.
I thought that by telling him no I was saving our friendship. At the end it was still ruined.