Falling For Someone Who Wears Diapers
I am having feelings for someone who wears diapers and I want to see what kind of advice/reaction from people on this subject. My neighbor and I drive by and do our friendly wave and stop occasionally with some small talk. Sometimes he would stop over and have a drink with my husband and I, and vice verse. One night about three months ago is when this story takes place. I was alone one night and wanted to have a drink so I went next door to see if my neighbor was home. No one was home so I got up the nerve to text him to see if he was going to be home soon. Found out he was in Florida visiting his son for a couple of days. We ended up texting for several hours into the morning hours. During that time he told me he wore diapers and wanted to know if I ever noticed them. He had been trying to get my attention for eight years which he also told me he found me very attractive, but was too shy to tell me how he felt about me. After he told me these things I wasnt sure how to respond. I didnt care that he wore diapers, Im not one to judge people. To make a long story short our texting hasnt stopped. We have learned so much about each other, it is unreal how two people have so much in common. Our personalities and outlook on life are so similar. Our relationship has delveloped closer than either of us expected. He has confessed how much he cares for me and has even went as far as to tell me he is in love with me. During this time I have changed his diapers, had sexual relations with and without his diaper. We recently had the opportunity to spend a whole night together, in which we diapered each other, he even bought us matching plastic pants! What an experience for both of us. He got to experience a fantasy he had always wanted to do and I am glad I am the one he got to share it with. I finally got up the nerve to ask him about a future together. His response was his marriage is comfortable and that he would have a lot to lose. His wife knew about his fetish early in their marriage, but did not like it or want to share it with him. It was not spoke of again and still to this day she has no idea he wears diapers frequently. I to am married, but it is in turmoil and has been for some time now. He told me if he met me 15 years ago things might be different, but he want to continue with affair. Of course I cant say no to this, I dont want to let him go. When do you find someone in which you enjoy their company, have great conversations and great sexual experiences? He is thirteen years older than me and he thinks that this might become a problem in the future. We are both are confused and dont want to give each other up. What does a person do when you find your partner ,soulmate,in a situation like ours? Do I stick with having an affair and maybe one day in the future we can be together or just give up entirely?