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The Letter In The Male Box

i met someone at a club one night, was hopelesley already in love, you could even say it was love at first sight. i did the dirty deed and went home with him, expecting to never see him again i thought why the hell not. he didnt ask for my number so there was no way in hell i was passing up on an opportunnity to have love for a night, especially with a really hot, blue eyed tall handsome man!

he seemd really keen, we had alot in common and there were alot of laughs, we couldnt stop kissing and going back to his house we didnt just DO IT. we socialised for a bit, then the dirty deed was done.

i layed there, tearing up because of how fast i fell for this one individual. he layed there holding my hand and spooning me at the same time, i thought to myself, what guy would do that to a women he just met? so i freaked, and bolted.

a week later i couldnt shake the feeling i did something terribly wrong. i used the man, and i never gave him the opportunity to ask for my number, nor wait till the morning to see what wouldve happened. i guess i was scared of the unknown or better yet, REJECTION.

i spoke to a girlfriend about it all and she suggested i write him a letter.
After all i did know where he lived. so i thought to myself why not? suprisingly i remembered his street name, was one of the things i looked out for seeing i was going home with a stranger. i also rememebered and made sure of what his house looked like. so over all, i knew where he lived.

i drove down to his place late at night, wrote a letter in my car, and dropped it into his letter box. got back in the car, and drove away.

2 weeks had past, and i had heard nothing. when suddently one thursday afternoon i receieved an annonymous text message from an unknown person, and to my surpise it was him. tears started building up in my eyes, and i coudlnt believe it.

This was the letter i wrote to him :

Hi,

im not sure if u remember me, but its Kelly from last saturday night, i want to apologize for leaving you the other night the way i did but something came up and i had to leave, if your still keen heres my number, otherwise it was nice to meet you.

because of that letter, i have now been with my boyfriend for 8 months and still going strong. im inlove, and this is mr right. he always thanks me for writing that letter, because he was going to ask for my number but never gave him the chance because i dissapeared. He was excited to have seen my letter.
he said the reason it took so long to get back to me after getting my letter is because he has a PO BOX, he never checks his letter box, the one time he did was to clear it out as it was full, my letter just fell on the ground as he grabbed everything and landed beside his feet. he sat in side so stunned and said he re read my letter over and over again.

That letter gave me a future i did not expect! and him and are so happily inlove!


ladybug89 ladybug89 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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nup. love story failed. he dumped me a month ago. said i was too affectionate, and i was making sex a chore cause i wanted it all the time, then said im an attention seeker cause i wanted to spend alot of time with him when he clearly wanted me to move in with him, and i did, and i get punished for wanting to be in a relationship. so that love story ended with "THE END"

You see, he said he never checks his letter box. It is fate. Many who find true love have these stories, they could be a romance novel. Hard to explain

nup. love story failed. he dumped me a month ago. said i was too affectionate, and i was making sex a chore cause i wanted it all the time, then said im an attention seeker cause i wanted to spend alot of time with him when he clearly wanted me to move in with him, and i did, and i get punished for wanting to be in a relationship. so that love story ended with "THE END"

Men. wtf right. they ***** if you don't like sex and if you like it too much.
The trouble is women have such a capacity it can scare the hell out of us.
Also as a man I think women can eat chocolate all the time and not get tired of it, Men like to switch to carmel or licorice or taffy. If we get to much we lose our appetite for a while. Not all of us but a lot of us do.
Got to keep them wanting sometimes. He may come back when he misses you but I think then it is the sex and not true love, from a man's point of view. I don't know, give it some time. keep me informed and I'm sorry it turned out this way. Sorry, I ramble sometimes.

even if he was to come back, i wouldnt take him back anyways.
he may of got bored, but i didnt do anything wrong, he was just too football and gym orintated to want to make effort with me. he had to have every second friday to himself otherwise he would crack it. that would mean him having a protein shake, sitting on the couch watching his tv and thats it, always got annoyed if i wanted to try and please him sexually, or cuddle him, never got that either. so he changed once i moved in with him.

dw about rambling its good to read!!!

yes, men are a pain in the ***. I know, I'm one of them but I try to not be your typical male. Maybe why i'm married 50 years.

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Ahhhh xx

as the friend who convinced you to write that letter...I TAKE FULL CREDIT! :P

HAHA you rock!! but sometimes i wish u didnt make me write it!!! lol hes a **** sometimes! lol but i need a husband someday, i pick him! HEHE

How nice. It was meant to be. good for you.

Wow, I loved reading this great story! It is possible to "accidentally" find just the right man!!! I am so very happy for both of you, and I'm so glad you wrote and delivered the note to him. You kept the note short and sweet---no need to say anything more. Job well done, I say. Lucky lucky you! (I've read your story more than once! ; )

Thanks lovely! Glad you enjoyed reading it! Its been 11 months and still together :-) moving in together in 30 days, so exciting!

nup. love story failed. he dumped me a month ago. said i was too affectionate, and i was making sex a chore cause i wanted it all the time, then said im an attention seeker cause i wanted to spend alot of time with him when he clearly wanted me to move in with him, and i did, and i get punished for wanting to be in a relationship. so that love story ended with "THE END"

Oh, I'm so sorry and surprised to hear that! But ya, sometimes they don't know what they really want---until it's too late. I know of a couple that the man wanted lots of kids...5...and a few years later, he asked: why are there so many KIDS? Um.......well...... But a man saying that sex is a chore??? OMG! They mostly don't know what they really want...I've learned that, too! I hope the next one works out for you, when you find him!

Thank you :) men are just as complicated as women i must say, they truly dont know what they want and it is very sad.

my story was lovely, all my friends were just in AWW but its amazing what time can do to a love story. :(

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