I Remember My First Time
It was the summer of 1985. Some girlfriends and I were watching our boyfriends play baseball when a group of guys from another team sat by us. We were giggling and flirting and somehow, Jay and I made this connection. I was actually dating another boy but couldn't get Jay out of my mind. We had exchanged phone numbers and talked a few times on the phone. I invited him and some friends out to a friends party. By now I had broken up with D which I did feel bad about. But Jay and I just had this chemistry. Even at my tender age, (14... gulp!) I knew that I wanted him. I was definitely the aggressor! Not that I had to twist his arm very hard! ha ha
I am one of the lucky ones in that he took the time to care about ME. He was 17 and had had enough experience to know how to make it good. We dated throughout the summer. The relationship was more sexual than emotional so when it ended, we were both okay. We even hooked up briefly two years later. It was definitely a lot more fun that time around! :0)
