No Fun

I would very much like to forget.

Grits4life Grits4life
46-50, F
7 Responses Feb 11, 2009

Why? I suspect it had something to do with toxic expectations. The first time is given way too much importance and rarely lives up to what is expected. That difference between what one expects and what happens is a toxic leftover and is usually what kills relationships too.

that's funny Glorious! How 'bout your 1st time??

orien we are not talking about the most recent. only the first. :)

Mine was so wonderful - I was glad that I waited until I was in my mid-20's and I am glad that it was with that particular person - he was/is romantic, loving, open and didn't expect for it to happen - which was so fun to see the look of surprise and awe when I didn't say stop - I said go! I felt cherished! I would wish for that to be everyone's first experience!

terrible....I wondered what in the H*** all the hype was about....

Mine as well--who knew!?

Mine was great.