Finish Me Off

I have been working on Shelle for sometime and having great success, but could use any help that I can get . so show some compassion and help.
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5 Responses Jan 15, 2012

do you know a school for be ladyboy ? i'm 21 years old but i fell very feminine can you suggest me?

I agree with akadee you look good

You ARE a lovely, beautiful, compassionate, gracious woman! Look into the mirror each morning and re assert that fact, verbally, out loud! Seriously, I think that presenting yourself with confidence in knowing who and what you are when out in public is more than half the battle. I agree with the comment that said that we can learn from observing the women around us, especially those in our age bracket. Big hugs honey.

Absolutely, I agree.<br />
Also, work on how you carry yourself - in many instances this is more important than looks / dressing.<br />
Don't give yourself a gigantic bustline - it just attracts attention especially if you are not moving with poise and elegance<br />
Hugs<br />

Shelle, the main thing I can think of to tell trans women is to look around at women your age and take hints from them. Being age-appropriate is so hard for older trans women. I think it has to do with finally getting to express what we desired all those years and trying to look like the cute young women we wish we were. Generally it's too late for that, but we can approximate the elegance of older women we admire. I look to Twyla Tharp, Helen Mirren and Christine LaGarde. They have class. In any case, I wish you all the best in your journey.