2nd Cousin Swimming

I am currently an 16 yo boy and my cousin is 12 yo.
My story begins when I was 14 and he was 10. He lives in Cornwall and I live in Birmingham (about 5 hours drive away). My mum, sister and I had gone down to stay with my Gran in Cornwall for a week in the summer and us four plus my dad's cousin and her two children (one boy, the one I saw naked, and one girl) had gone to the beach for the day and we were then going back to my Gran's for a Chinese takeaway. It was summer and so my dad's cousin, her two children, my sister and I had been in the sea and all five of us needed showers. I went back to my gran's in the car with my male 2nd cousin and my sister and female second cousin went together too. My gran had two showers in her house and so my 2nd cousin suggested that we share a shower to save time. I was absolutely mortified by this and against it and I said that I wouldn't want to do that. However, the idea of seeing people naked and being seen naked was introduced to me. Therefore, over the year, the idea grew and grew on me (inception style lol) until I was actively planning a way to be seen naked. I decided to try it with this cousin because he's not a stranger but we only see each other about 2 times a year so it wouldn't be too awkward. And so, I began to plan suggesting going to the beach and getting as many people in the sea as possible and then waiting for him to suggest it or, if he didn't to suggest it myself. However, when we went down that summer, the weather was awful and it rained pretty much constantly. We went swimming instead though, but the chance didn't occur to me until we were getting out. I had done the classic swimming trunks instead of boxers trick so getting changed to get in wasn't going to happen. However, there were no changing rooms by the pool, but there was a weights room with shower rooms attached. When we got out, my 2nd cousin led me to them and, at the door turned round and asked if I wanted to share. I said that I wasn't bothered unless he was (trying to be cool about it and not seem too excited) to which he said he wasn't. When we went in, he went to the toilet which had a separate wall and door and I got in the shower. I turned the shower on and took my trunks off, purposefully leaving the shower curtain open. He came out the toilet and saw me there naked, and I think he was surprised. When I was younger, I was always very protective about being seen naked and so hadn't been seen naked since I was having baths that my mum ran for me (when I was about 9/10). Therefore, I was quite excited to be seen naked once again and began to get a little bit hard (I'm not gay, it was just an exciting experience after not being seen naked for so long). I quickly turned the shower off and got out and went to dry myself. I didn't dry myself fast enough and I'm pretty sure he saw my hard on, but he didn't say anything. He got changed behind his towel at the same time so I didn't get to see him naked which was quite disappointing. I was quite ashamed though because I didn't want him to think I was gay and liked him, but he didn't say anything and my family and I went back to Birmingham without incident. We went down again the next year at Easter (which was this year) and we went swimming again and again when we got out and went to the shower rooms he turned to me and asked if I wanted to share to which I said that I didn't mind unless he did which he said he didn't. He then went to the toilet, like last time, and I took my trunks off and got in the shower, again leaving the curtain open. This time I lasted a bit longer in the shower (put it on cold!) and so he got a good glimpse of my limp penis (a huge relief to me, as it proved that I wasn't gay which had been bothering me a little) and managed to get changed and covered up before I got hard. He got changed too, this time without a towel, but with his back to me, so I got some vague glimpses, but not a full on view yet. He seems to be getting a bit more relaxed about it though so hopefully next year I can get a proper view and possibly have a little compare. I'm not doing this to be turned on by this experience, I'm just curious about seeing someone else who is vaguely my age naked in the flesh. My family have been reasonably relaxed about nudism, just stuff like my parents going naked around the house after having a shower but I was the one that decided to keep covered for so long, but now that has made me want to be seen naked even more. My naked body felt like a huge secret and so it felt amazing to just show it to someone and get it off my chest. I really like being seen naked and seeing him naked because it makes me feel so free as he sees me as I really am and I feel it brings us closer too.
flexi5 flexi5 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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You are probably much larger than him at 13 & you at 17, so his is smaller, so he is shy about it!; but he enjoys seeing an older guy with a bigger penis.

Your story reminded me of an incident with my cousi when we were about 16 (me) and 12(him). You're a normal guy, don't sweat it!

I am straight also but when younger we, boys and girls, all go through the curiosity phase with both the same sex and opposited sex. It is completely normal and a very natural feeling. To this day I still have a bit of that curiosity about what others might look like but now learning to embrace a nudist/naturist lifestyle when circumstances allow that curiosity has been satisfied and I now just enjoy the freedom of being nude by myself and with others.

That is true.

There's nothing wrong with being curious about the same/opposite sex. When I was between the age of 14 and 17, my male friend and I would often watch **** movies together. He was not shy at all and had no apprehension about pulling his pants off, taking out his erect **** and stroking it right in front of me while watching the ****. I followed his lead and disrobed and started stroking my own. I have to admit, it was quite a turn on watching another guy my age playing with himself. Sometimes my gaze would shift from the **** to my friend wanking, and many times I caught him gazing at me wanking. <br />
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Over the years we became much more comfortable with each other to the point where we would mutually ********** each other, but that's a story for another day.<br />
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The point of my comment is that judging by where you and your cousin are at and getting changed in front of each other, I think you have a fairly decent opportunity to say "hey, what does yours look like?" and then move on to the classic "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". Just caveat the **** out of it with "i swear, I'm not gay...but let's see what you have under the hood".<br />
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Good luck, I look forward to hearing how your next encounter goes!

P.S. Sorry for the lengthy comment!

It's nice to know other straight guys are interested in nudism. I'm not interested in getting aroused over him and he's too young to watch **** together, I just want to be naked around someone my age just to get the "secret" off my chest and to build that bond. I will try and go for the, "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" but it won't be until summer now

It's understandable. As i mentioned in another reply here, I had similar curiosity when I was that age. And the interesting dichotomy is that back when I was 12, we were all required to take showers at school so by the time we were the age you were when you became curious about seeing your second cousin nude, we had all seen all our classmates naked for a couple years - and yet we (well, I can only speak for myself but I do not think I was alone) had that same curiosity! Like I said, you're just a normal guy.