Five Years...

Wow.. it's been forever since we saw each other.  After I ended the relationship back was in grade 9 I thought I would never speak or see this guy again. Recently I went out to dinner with my family, and there he was.. working!!!  He took my phone number, and then this weekend when my parents went away, he spent the night!    Feels like not a day has passed in the five years we have been apart.  

I love him, and I loved the night we spent together, but I'm not sure I want to be with him again. He makes me nervous, and insecure.   What should I do!?
chateone chateone
18-21, F
3 Responses Mar 3, 2007

I think you should trust your instincts and forget about him.

He never cheated, and he isn't a pla<x>yer thank God. But like he always made me nervous as if he would physically hurt me, but he never did in the past. He just didn't know his own strenght. <br />
The night he slept ever, things were alright. He held me, and we cuddled, and everything seemed perfect. I want to hope that he changed, but he was tellin me how his ex and himself got into a physical fight and they ended the relationship. He told me that she tried to punch him, but I don't know the actual story. He just makes me reallly nervous. Maybe I should just move on in life, and forget bout him!?

It depends on why he makes you feel nervous or insecure. Did he cheat on you in the past? Is he a pla<x>yer? I would recommend just trying to take it slow. He may have changed a lot for the better since you were with him last. Sounds like he was young back then so maybe he is more mature now. Just proceed with caution and take care not to get hurt.