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Saw Him At the Er Last Night Night!

A personal story in the experience: I Saw My Ex Husband and It Brought Back Bad Memories

I fell at work last night hurting my right knee. Well, my boss sent me to the emergency room to have it looked at. I called Matt and asked him to meet me there and he did. When they took me back to have X-Rays I saw this person that I thought looked like my ex husband Chris, so I look again, I was like no way, so I took another look...he was looking dead at me, I though no, so I take a forth look and I knew it was him. I haven't seen him in over 7 years since the divorce. I asked the lady, is that Chris ****? She said it was her first day, she didn't know anybody. When the X-rays were over he was no longer standing where he was. I told Matt, I just saw my ex-husband of 8 years. But, in the back of my mind I was like what would he be doing working way down here when he lives in Lagrange? It couldn't have been him. Matt agreed it couldn't of been him either. The doctor finally came in and I asked do you have a Chris **** working here, he said yes, he drives a white truck and I said a white Ford Lighting, the doctor somewhat surprised said yes. I told him I was Chris's ex-wife. He said he should of seen that by my last name. I kept his last name after the divorce.

Anyway, all these emotions start running through me, I hate him for what he did to me. He divorced me while I was in the hospital, put all my belongings in a storage unit, and feed my cat Sasha antifreeze. I thought I was the one that caused our relationship to fail, but come to find out as soon as the waiting period was up, he remarried to a lady he worked with name Lisa. He had been seeing her for some time. When I got of the hospital, I didn't have a home to go to anymore, I got an apartment in Lineville, a long ways away from my family. He messed up my life so horribly bad.

I told Matt when we got home, I should of walked right up to him and slapped in front of all his cow-workers. Matt said I would of most likely ended up in jail...you know it seems worth it! After all the pain and suffering he put me through, one good slap seems hardly fair.

 

Now I can't believe he and I works less then 4 blocks from each other, I just pray he never comes into Applebee's, I'll end up getting fired!

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Feeling tired
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 9:07AM
That's horrible. ((hug)) No wonder theonlycatsmeow is feeling "very annoyed". :-(
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Feeling okay
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 9:10AM
That and the way my boss treated me after I fell last night at work. It was just one big cluster F*CK! (sorry for my cussing)

Luv ya sweetie! *Mwah* ((((Hugs))))
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Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 9:39AM
Damn it sucks
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Feeling okay
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 9:46AM
Hell, yeah it sucked!
     
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 4:49PM
aww he sounds like a real *** hole lol you should have slapped him and hard.. i hope you feel better sweety and remember the man you have now is much better!!
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Feeling okay
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 5:13PM
I realize now after some thought slapping him would have only given me tempory pleasure. So, it's better that I was there with a man that cared enough to be there with me and him (my ex) seeing and knowing that!
     
Feeling giggly
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 6:06PM
Makes you wonder why he vanished..I think he knew a slap was on the way.I have to see my ex a few times a year.My daughter invites both of us to family events.Like you, I first wanted to smack him..now I act relaxed.It does bring back emotions.I've never said a word about our marriage, to him.That's my way of showing him I'm strong.
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Feeling okay
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 6:20PM
Thank you wiseowl, you are right...I did the right thing by doing nothing at all, saying nothing at all...it showed I was strong and I was ok! I am thankful for the support of my man being there with me. It might not have turned out the way it did if it hadn't of been for him being there with me. I feel I did the right thing! I feel you're doing the right thing!
     
Posted Aug 3rd, 2009 at 9:00AM
my mom and dad are divorced.my mom has a boyfriend that is actualy nice.but my on the other side my dad has a girlfrieand or should i say fionce, ye they got ingaged a few years ago and my dad never told us.my 2 rude step brothers told me and my brother about this.they new because my almost mom[dads girlfriend]told them but my dad never had the guts to tell us for year!!!
     
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