Watching Her Big Sister Get The Paddle

Well I have many more interests than than chatting about spankings so I wouldn't say a big part but a part of some size lol.
Po

Ha ha Thanks a totally useless talent, red bottom journalism.

if you want I would let you interview me,I know you probably don't talk to boys but I promise that I will only answer questions :)

Thanks I'm sure you are a nice guy but although I do like reading some of the stories hear from men I can really only relate to girls spankings.

My yahoo is spanking205@yahoo.com if you decide to add me :)

Huh?

Camry said that she found watching a spanking funny (hence punishment and pleasure), but tried not to laugh in case she got a spanking too.

Oh ok I get it.
Po

Seriously, I know many posts are written by devoted spankers/spankees but how many of those spanked do you think ended up taking any pleasure from it? Was it sometimes seen as a sign of affection or just abuse? For me it was rare and unpleasant.

Of the girls and women I have talked to and I don't talk to these people who think spanking is about sex or adult play, they have their own thing going which is fine, but of the ones I have talked to about like high school age punishment spanking, the number who said they got any pleasure out of it was close to zero. Some said they got a sense of relief of guilt however but that's not the same thing as pleasure.

Thank you. I did wonder. It strikes me as similar to the use of guilt as a control that most churches and the catholics especially rely on. Make your victim feel that it is their fault. Is this just the malicious control method of the weak and mean or the self-justification of the weak and heartless? I never had a problem with corporal punishment, but when it amounts to bullying it is the same as bullying and when it includes humiliation then I have to suspect that it is either bullying, voyeuristic or sexually motivated on the part of the spanker.

There is no question home punishment spankings for teenagers is bullying. As far as sexually motivated I'm sure in some cases it can be kind of a form of non-touching ****** or something but I think your analogy to religion is correct. Basically the idea is to create a situation so humiliating, embarrassing and painful that they think twice before they do something that would get them in that position again. It works with some kids and doesn't with others but it is definitely a form of bullying in my opinion.

Do you ever wonder if those for whom spanking is a sexual pleasure became hooked through discipline? For example I've met a few women who return to abusive relationships because it is the only form of recognition and affection that they've ever known. If spanking shows that Mum/Dad/Teacher/Pastor cares about you and your future, do you feel cast adrift without it? Who do you seek out to replace them? Or do you feel that these people come into it later in life as a variant on dominance and submission?

Interesting thoughts.
Po

re benroundtheblock:
Yes probably various colors and also spanked boys who jump up and down with their little thingies bouncing up and down would not look so very amusing if it were over at the three ring circus over close to the elephants and the man on the flying trapeze and quite apart from any big deal about neurology and whether the sort of girl that you describe would get it into her head any better if she got paddled a little bit longer instead of too hard and too short I had the impression that the things that everyone has been talking about around here are kind of like a person who went looking for shelter as if the hope and the passion had nearly been said in some song from the 1970s about how its just a shout away. And over there if I don’t get some shelter then “oh oh I’m gonna fade away.”

And “Hey, Children….it’s just a shout away…” and I don’t remember the name of it nor the group of musicians and maybe by comparison a world that would just believe you instead of one that spreads rumors about spankings would be like a place where you could walk through the walls of it and know all its secrets.

Also if sometimes the matter of special concern has been the lively affair instead of too much like if it may as well have Mohammed Ali the famous boxer gets a lesson from his mother with maybe a switch of some sort over close to the kitchen somewhere (and for all I know maybe it is really sometimes like that for especially over on the Afro-American side of the tracks) then so far this one sounds ok to me (well if Leila came over to whine and complain about it and with her derriere still colored up so much and also with envy then as long as it seemed to be that way I would probably make more of a big deal about her feelings about it instead of too much respect for her opinions) and also I have noticed some other ones in various reports that seem to be probably real ones and as far as I can tell what these very healthy spanked people deserve is for everyone to make light of them for a while and the one that I would trust the most was reported by SammyScott and that one seems to deserve a very good reputation. Rock solid. See SammyScott 04/01/12 in I Saw Someone Get Spanked/2167418 “Exchange Visit Spanking.”

I didn’t feel so comfortable about the more aggressive looking one that was reported by anthony 403 in I Saw Someone Get Spanked/1649652 “Older Sister Gets It” since that one has a big deal about whether someone is going to eat her dinner and what kind of a spanking is that and maybe it gets out of hand unless maybe if it were more involved with what a sharp tongue she had and the spankings that seem to be holding up better for sure include one very lively one reported by det123 on 06/19/11 I Saw Someone Get Spanked/1649652 “Friends Older Sister Got Paddled.” I don’t think that that Lauren would belong in charge of anything for a while. Even if it had been abuse. And it wasn't abuse was it? Shouldn't everyone should make light of that naughty girl for a while? Does maybe everyone else think so too? Except for maybe people who are sicko in the head like AngieHolbrook or otherwise those who are missing some of it anyway like jimrich? And jimrich seems to be a much bigger problem than Angie because jimrich has a much higher standing but if I was an employer then I don’t think that I would give Lauren very much of a job yet and as long as she seemed healthy enough I would tend to believe that her rather funny kind of a household is ok and each to their own and maybe I would also make her bring a note of permission from her mother for if she deserves to get allowed to have any kind of a job yet or something like that for example…?

Cf: www.experienceproject.com/stories/Saw-Someone-Get-Spanked/16149652

www.experienceproject.com/stories/Saw-Someone-Get-Spanked/1623958

www.experienceproject.com/stories/Wonder-If-You-Think-Spanking-Children-Is-Wrong/1466091

Wow 18 n a half n your mom still spanks u!u must be pretty naughty for mom to spank u.when she spanks u does she take your panties down n over her knee u go?