I Say Happy Valentines Day
To me there is so much more to loving someone than Valentines day and chocolate. If you have that someone special in your life realize how fortunate you are,. Don't just show them love on Valentines day, live it, tell them and show them daily. It don't cost money to show you love.
I remember when I was married, my husband used to keep me a fresh bouquet of hand picked wild flowers during flower season. He worked hard all day 9-12 hour shifts, yet still always found time to pick my wild flowers, rain or shine, chiggers, ticks that didn't stop him, to me that was such an awesome testimony of his love to me and for me. I would take those hand picked wild flowers any day over a dozen store bought long stem roses.
Words of Affirmation- Compliments, words of encouragement, and requests rather than demands affirm the self-worth of your spouse. The man whose love language is words of affirmation feels loved by words that lift him up and build him up.
Quality Time- Spending quality time together through sharing, listening, and participating in joint meaningful activities communicates that we truly care for and enjoy each other. The man whose love language is quality time feels loved when his wife wants to spend time with him.
Receiving Gifts- Gifts are tangible symbols of love, whether they are items you purchased or made or are merely your own presence made available to your spouse. Gifts demonstrate that you care, and they represent the value of the relationship. The man whose love language is receiving gifts feels loved when his wife gives him gifts both great and small.
Acts of Service- Cooking a meal, ironing a shirt, keeping the house clean, and paying the bills all speak volumes of love to the man whose love language is acts of service. If this is your mans love language, he will become frustrated when certain household duties go undone and will feel like a million bucks to sit down to his favorite meal. The man whose love language is acts of service will feel loved when his wife takes care of him and helps him with his to-do list.
Physical Touch- Physical touch is more than sexual. It is holding his hand, touching his shoulder, giving him a hug, patting his back, or snuggling next to him while watching TV. The man whose love language is physical touch, feels loved when his wife is affectionate both privately and publicly.
I remember when I was married, my husband used to keep me a fresh bouquet of hand picked wild flowers during flower season. He worked hard all day 9-12 hour shifts, yet still always found time to pick my wild flowers, rain or shine, chiggers, ticks that didn't stop him, to me that was such an awesome testimony of his love to me and for me. I would take those hand picked wild flowers any day over a dozen store bought long stem roses.
Words of Affirmation- Compliments, words of encouragement, and requests rather than demands affirm the self-worth of your spouse. The man whose love language is words of affirmation feels loved by words that lift him up and build him up.
Quality Time- Spending quality time together through sharing, listening, and participating in joint meaningful activities communicates that we truly care for and enjoy each other. The man whose love language is quality time feels loved when his wife wants to spend time with him.
Receiving Gifts- Gifts are tangible symbols of love, whether they are items you purchased or made or are merely your own presence made available to your spouse. Gifts demonstrate that you care, and they represent the value of the relationship. The man whose love language is receiving gifts feels loved when his wife gives him gifts both great and small.
Acts of Service- Cooking a meal, ironing a shirt, keeping the house clean, and paying the bills all speak volumes of love to the man whose love language is acts of service. If this is your mans love language, he will become frustrated when certain household duties go undone and will feel like a million bucks to sit down to his favorite meal. The man whose love language is acts of service will feel loved when his wife takes care of him and helps him with his to-do list.
Physical Touch- Physical touch is more than sexual. It is holding his hand, touching his shoulder, giving him a hug, patting his back, or snuggling next to him while watching TV. The man whose love language is physical touch, feels loved when his wife is affectionate both privately and publicly.
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Age:
26-30
