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It's About More Than Just A Stinging Backside

I never start with having them fetch the paddle.

ALL spanking start bare bottom over my lap by hand. When I think they need more stinging I will have them get up and fetch the small paddle at that point. Then it is back over my lap or bent over the side of the bed for the paddle.

I think there is so much more to giving a good spanking than just a stinging backside. Anything to make the punishment worse without having to swat more is a positive from my viewpoint.

Fetching the implement definately makes the spanking psychologically worse.
whetstone22 whetstone22 51-55, M 8 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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i spanked my girls like that growing up i mean they will get tehre bare bottom hand spank goood for what they did wrong,i mean if they dont feel the effects of spanking it is no goodwith there pants an panties off crying sometimes i have them get the hairbrush for added but i like putting them in corner if there bottom is sore an red enough to make them think of what they did when done we hug kiss an all forgotten

my mom allowed me once a week to choose my spanking: what to be spanked with, my spanking positions, and how many from each tool but to make the total of 20.

you were lucky to have mom let you choose all those things

yes true, and bcoz of her kindness i would choose 3 different tools in 3 different positions, and when mom ask me how to split the 20 spanks, i ask her for 10 each.

that was nice of you for saying that

yes, and mom showed more kind, and she didn't spank me hard, i was totally surprised and when she found that she asked me if i need more hard ones, i agreed and asked for 10, but she gave me 30 hard ones.

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dad or mom would have me get the paddle if im going to be spank if they did not have it if iwas going to be switch i would have to go an cut an bring it back to house i end my crying by the time i am on the deck with the switches knowing im going to get it an cyring till i start to get spank

My parents do this to me :(( I hate doing it because I hold it and look it and get tense the whole way knowing what will soon happen. It's even worse when my step dad tells me to go out and cut a switch because I know he'll give me a worse spanking if I don't find and cut a good switch, so I have to select painful looking ones. Sometimes it's worse than the spanking. Because I'm the one bringing it to them, it's almost like I'm giving it to myself, which, I guess, is why my parents do it. I did it, I get it- I am the one who caused and 'gives' (by getting whatever it is) the spanking. At least my mum tells me that. Anyway, I really, really hate it.

Do you have to go bared/naked and cut the switch?

didnt you just hate the switch

i had to cut switches few times not often naked

some times bare bottom others not

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You spank to quickly, spanking should be drawn out with lots of talking and forced answers.

that is true if you want answers lcture as yo uspank an let the spanking take long time let the botom tense up wiht pain an soreness till they confess to what they did

my mom wouldn't spank me very hard to ensure my spanking time last for longer time, a lot of rubbing in between to cool my butt, and she would make change my position to allow me time to cool down and take my breath.

How many kids do you have?

Three - two grown and out of the house, one still home.

How old is the one still home?

15

"The feelings and thoughts surrounding the event are as important as the event itself"

I totally love what you have written here, and also the methods you use to spank and punish them. Especially when you say:

"I think there is so much more to giving a good spanking than just a stinging backside. Anything to make the punishment worse without having to swat more is a positive from my viewpoint. Fetching the implement definately makes the spanking psychologically worse."

Keep up the good work!