Easy Come, Easy Go

Sometimes it amazes me how easily I can do this, how easy I can shut someone out and move on. I have done it several times. It is probably a survival strategy that I acquired still as a child.

It might be an immature reaction, but, on the other hand, I don't dwell on losses or on toxic relations. Good for me!
thinkandfeel thinkandfeel
36-40, F
6 Responses Aug 2, 2010

My thoughts exactly!<br />
It gets scary though

agree. tho many times i worry myself.

yes, this is the secret: to find a good balance, so that you don't close yourself too much but still can maintain healthy relationships with people around you.

You cannot dwell on people who don't want to be in your life, they are as you said toxic, they will bring you down in the end and who wants that !! I don't find it to be immature I find it to be a defense mechanism and we all have them, just don't close yourself off to good people because they are hard to come by !!

I used to be like that too :)

I am somewhat the same way....although it takes me a while to do it. Glad <br />
i'm not the only weird one who does this lol