Put Up Walls
When people hurt me, I do tend to put up walls and barriers between us. I will sometimes shut them completely out, depending on the severity of the hurt they have caused. I guess it's just easier to shut them out, avoid talking to them, looking at them, or even paying them any attention. To me, it's just easier than dealing with all the conflict, which at times, even when trying to work through it, can lead to even more hurt. Some times, I think if you shut the person out, they will really understand just how much hurt they caused, and will come to realize that there may be things that we both need to work on.