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I have been judged all my life and it really gets old. I was always naturally petite but people automatically assume I must have an eating disorder, I don't. I eat and eat and eat and I don't gain. I am so sick of it I just want to gain weight, I have medical reasons why I can't get fat even with trying and people really don't understand and most refuse to believe that it exists. There are thin people who don't starve or barf to stay thin! I have been judged on many things but this one is the worst because it is a constant battle and so is defending myself in that I eat, hello people don't you get it some of us can't win even if we stuff our faces and others just look and gain... There should be a law against weight and height discrimination! So I urge you what ever the issue speak out and speak up.

Preminitions Preminitions
22-25, F
6 Responses Mar 5, 2010

Me too! I am so sick of people who think they can comment on my body just because I´m thin! All the those comments "don´t you eat anything" and a bunch of stupid remarks like that. why not show some respect?

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You're not alone...<br />
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I even lose weight during winter even if everybody is all gaining. It's just the way we are. Don't be too upset. They could just be envious, you know. Like what Lifeorregret said, we can look darn good if we want to...easily. ;)

Thank you, I feel better, I was really tird of it. Now I know I am not aone, thanks.

I am in the same boat. I looked darn good going to a symphony last night. I rarely say that about myself, but friends were silent. They said I am too bony up top. I have been this way for 30 years, and I doubt it will change anytime soon.

People can be mean. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. Just try to be happy with who you are and forget about those who don't approve. Just enjoy the fact that you aren't overweight and that you can probably run fast.