Hey reader,
It's been a long time since my last relationship and I was lucky back then. I felt lonely and empty inside for a while. Because of this, I started to go out more often and look for anything to happen. I also decided to read about talking to girls and I really tried to get into the game. I still don't have any succes at finding someone special and the chance of getting in the friendzone always gets bigger and bigger. The things I read all come to one conclusion: 'being cocky'. This is impossible for me. I don't know how to be cocky or how to flirt. Every attempt I make at approaching a girl, I end up with nothing but an extra friend.
I have many 'girlfriends' and they're starting to talk about their relationships and sexlife. All I hear is that some big bully with the perfect body gets what he wants and treats them like s***t. I am sick of hearing this. There are many nice guys out there and they always need to struggle to get a girl, just because they are not cocky enough. Maybe I'm jealous but I still think this is terrible. Girls, why do you choose the horrible guys and leave the nice guys out? I just wanted to get this out of my system.

Thanks for reading.
jm2serious jm2serious
22-25, M
1 Response Aug 15, 2012

You seem lost. Finding yourself is way better then finding anyone. Finding God is a way better conversation then you will ever read. Anywere.