19 Deep Questions

1 . What is more difficult for you; looking into someone's eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone's eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
: Looking into someone's eyes when I am telling them how I feel.

2. Think of the last time you were really angry?
: In January I asked my sister to take me to the hospital because I thought I had broken something in my back and was in agony. Her response was nothing short of hostile and cruel. I haven't spoken to her since and my blood still boils when I think of it. Grrr.

3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You get enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
: My kids and tell them I love them.

4. You are at the doctor's office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live.
(A) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die?
(B) What do you do with your remaining days?
(C) Would you be afraid?
a) I tell my family.
b)Go on one hell of a holiday to somewhere tropical, poolside with a cocktail in a coconut.
c) I would worry for my kids but have never really been afraid of death, I imagine it as quite peaceful.

5. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love?
:Trust, love isn't worth anything without trust.

6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do?
: Help the dog and deal with the consequences at work, I couldn't live with myself otherwise.

7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her?
:Not unless I plan on breaking up.

8. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?
: Halong Bay, Vietnam.

9. Think of the last person who you really knew that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Would you?
:Yes an hour with my Dad would mean the world to me.

10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
:When I'm sober, yes.

11. Your boss tells your co-worker that they have to let him go because of work shortage, and he is the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company?
:I also have family to support and am not in the position to make other people's problems mine.

12. What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
:That I love them.

13. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up?

14. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
: My kids, today.

15. If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you had "no regrets" what would it be?"
:Not paying attention in school.

16. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside
your window. Who do you call?
:The cops of course!

17. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying?
:Um no but only because of safety concerns. If I saw a person in distress and I could help them, I would.

18. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a heart break or have never loved before?
:I'll take the heartbreak, afterall - It is better to have loved and lost...

19. If you could do anything OR wish for anything that would come true, what would it be?
:To have a prosperous healthy and loving life, rich with meaning and joy.
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May 15, 2012