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I Sometimes Feel Very Alone

The Average Day Of The Nice Guy

By: AndYes
Written on December 9th, 2012
By: AndYes
Age: 18-21 , Male
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  • Annabelpixie

    You seems like a very nice guy who perhaps has yet to meet the right girl who will appreciate you for who you are. Well, you're still young so be hopeful. All the best! :)

    Dec 10, 2012
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    • AndYes

      Thank you:-)

      Dec 10, 2012
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  • djk007

    let me tell you one thing
    unless and until you don't become bold and outgoing
    gals won't notice you
    Believe me gal's mentality sucks in such thing
    they go for the guys who'll simply FUCCK THEM AND USE THEM
    no respct for good guys
    dont belive me?
    chck ur mates
    all bad boys wuld have hottest babes and all guyz wuld be doing nothing but watchin pornoss and ************!
    SO CHOOOSE UR WAY

    Dec 9, 2012
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  • classicslover91

    As a woman in your age range, I agree with someone who said that girls are not attracted to guys without confidence. For example, I have so much going on in my life, that if I was dating a guy that was not confident, I would have to spend time comforting him and making him feel secure - that is a turn off! Be confident in yourself! and if you can't be, fake confidence until it becomes real! and remember that girls are not always confident too, you might have to be the one who makes the grand gesture to a girl. Perhaps try looking for girls at your local place of worship

    Dec 9, 2012
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    • AndYes

      yeah I know, but Im not like the guy that dont say anything or something like that, I can fake confidence and let other think I got it, but like when Im doing it I got this voice in my head telling me I'll screw it up.

      Dec 11, 2012
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  • Tippitoe

    Aw, you sound like a great guy and would be a perfect boyfriend for any lucky girl. Don't worry, you'll find someone soon if you're able to talk and flirt well, your paths just haven't crossed yet :) good luck

    Dec 9, 2012
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    • AndYes

      Thanks for your time and the reply :) I appriciate it :) Thanks

      Dec 11, 2012
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  • garvan

    I admire your approach to life,a young man with a wise head.Cheers.

    Dec 9, 2012
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    • AndYes

      Cheers mate :)

      Dec 9, 2012
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  • bobrido

    You sound a lot like me when I was your age. It took me many years to learn to love myself. As I accepted me for me, as I loved who I was, I could feel my self esteem and my confidence building up.

    That's exactly what you need to do now. You need to learn to start loving yourself. You need to focus on what your good qualities are and how they make you unique. Yes, everyone out there has some good qualities about them, including you. Embrace those good qualities as something you can present to the world in a positive fashion. Soon, others will notice those good qualities.

    Another thing to start doing is to learn to look yourself in the mirror. Don't be ashamed of the person you see. Instead, embrace the person you see as someone who is loving, caring, and compassionate. Those are positive qualities any person would love to have. When you're looking at yourself in the mirror, remind yourself that you're a wonderful human being who deserves to love and has so much love to give. Smile at yourself. Use positive affirmation and tell yourself that you love YOU.

    I would also point out that you can never truly love someone else until you've learned to love yourself. I know, it's cliche as hell. Someone told me that same cliche when I was your age and I thought they were full of it. Life experience told me otherwise.

    Finally, I would also point out that most women are not attracted to a man who lacks self confidence. In order to have meaningful and fulfilling relationships down the line, you need to work on building up that self confidence.

    Dec 9, 2012
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    • AndYes

      Thanks for taking time on giving such good reply that gave much answers to what I was wondering, appriciate it! :)

      Dec 9, 2012
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