Hugs are important. As a child dad would and still does give me a hug when I am upset. Two ex boyfriends would give great hugs. That important man in my life well they are not always long hugs but they are usually secret hugs done in a hurry. Except one that we did at my house when mum and dad were not around it was still done quickly as he had to get home but it was one of those hugs that are all consuming that make you feel better and that puts everything into perspective. The last hug we had lasted seconds because we might be found out. But that made it seem all the more important and illicit.