I am really older than the choice I selected. Even now, I still get suckered into thinking this guy is ok, only to find out differently. My gal friend is experiencing the same thing. It just doesn't change with age. Right now he is out on a date. He thinks he has fooled me but he hasn't. I just don't care anymore and don't want the drama NOR do I want to be used or lied to. I am done with him.