It Gets Me Down ...

I know that you can't always please everyone, but I do try very hard to do so, and when I don't succeed, I am way to hard on myself ...

I need to start wanting to please myself more!


kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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i think you perhaps do this because you think people won't like or accept you if you don't you should change this pattern of thought! be more confident! do small things for other and yourself! remember whos number 1 from time to time! think about all the things special about yourself and milk them for all there worth! you have nothing to lose! just be happy! be you! good luck to you!

so true HWP ... so true

I'm guilty of it myself (look at my name for pete's sake! whoever pete is, lol)

But what I've learned is this:

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being selfish. The better you take care of yourself the better you are able to take care of others.

Lot's of people gripe about Bill Gates and all his money, but he has done more to improve the education system in this country than anyone.

If you are on airplane that is going down, you have to put your oxygen mask on first or you won't be able to help anyone else.

Peace & Love.

very true.

but we must not cross that thin line into being selfish

very true.

you can please some people but not everyone. there comes a time when you have to please you and do what makes you happy.

LOL sorry bassplayer - that comment was for big dog LOL

you go

never :)

LOL .... are you a naughty boy today?

Balance in and of all things.


I totally agree with what you just said. I need to please myself more. Focus on the good things.