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Semi-public Spanking?

About a week ago my boyfriend and I were playing and a roommate and her friend walked in. There wasn't much to do about it, especially when they invited themselves to watch.

So my question to you all is: Guys, how would you feel about your girlfriend spanking you in front of others? Girls, is spanking your boyfriend in front of other people something you'd like to do? Or not?
lrb91 lrb91 18-21, F 71 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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I would be embarrassed

I would love to be spanked on my bare bottom by a girl in front of girls & guys -SO SEXY & EROTIC. Nothing heavy -just her hand etc.. Please reply & add me as a friend. Great post by you. Take care.

It would be very embarrassing and very arousing to be spanked by a girl in front of another girl or girls. Especially if the audience held my hand and chastised me, mocked me while looking straight into my tear filed eyes. I would dread the possibility of the other girl also spanking me.

I love the idea..... wish I could make that happen

It's happened to me once. I kind of knew it was coming. I was in trouble because I'd forgotten our anniversary. I've had some real scorchings for much less than that so I knew I was going to get it big time! I also knew that my GF's friends were coming for brunch that day. 15 minutes before they were due I had to ***** and get a good hard spanking OTK and made to stand in the corner. I had real butterflies in my stomach because I didn't know what the friends would say and do or if they even knew about me. I had to stay where I was in silence as they came in, chatting and giggling. I was blushing big time, and maybe even shaking a bit! Nothing like this had ever happened before. Well, all my GF's GFs knew exactly what they were in for. I had to fetch and carry things for them and when I made mistakes I had to bend over a chair and get some licks with the paddle. The friends didn't really hurt me that much, except once or twice when they didn't manage to hit me with the flat of the paddle and whacked near the bone. Only one of them, Kathy, really roasted me. She's a gym freak and she's got really powerful arms. When she took her turn she put me OTK and just let rip. My GF was laughing the whole time. She let Kathy beat me until I was crying with pain. Then I had to go on my knees from each friend to the next and thank them for the beatings and apologise for being insolent and awkward. Then the worst thing happened: the doorbell went and it was Mitchell, Kathy's BF, coming to pick her up. He wasn't too happy to see me naked on the floor in front of his GF and semi-aroused. I don't think he was in on the secret and he looked pretty disgusted. I was starting to think about putting my clothes on and apologising but my GF took charge. She explained that I'd been bad and she needed some help to discipline me. He took some persuading to start with. He said that if he gave me a beating it would be the real thing, a real man-sized beating, and he didn't think my GF was being serious, or that I could take it, so he wasn't going to start. That was OK by me. I didn't want to be in this situation with another man. I didn't dare say that though. I just had to hope. My GF had an evil twinkle in her eye. She talked him into it and he took his big leather belt off and ordered me over the chair. I was really shaking this time. I wanted to say 'no' but I couldn't so I got over the chair and held onto the legs for dear life! Well, Mitchell wasn't lying about what he was going to do to me. It was the worst belting I've ever had in my life. I tried so hard not to cry but I was sobbing and gasping for air before the end of it. The friends didn't seem to notice that I was really in distress and in much too much pain. My GF knew but she was happy with that. That night I begged her on my knees not to let another man beat me again, or even let her friends beat me, but she laughed and said she couldn't make any promises. It's only a matter of time before they all come over to the house again. My GF's introduced me to the cane since then so I'm going to be in real trouble if it happens again!

Its very difficult, at least in CT to find women who are interested in spanking men...I was lucky enough to find one woman several years ago through a website.. thankfully she was not a pro... I was /am only interested in someone who wanted to do this because it was what she was into and not because she was going to get paid for it...I was very concerned about how I would react once I was so exposed in front of a woman I had never known before, much less what would happen once she started spanking me...I found the courage to tell her about my concerns which were not concerns of hers...soon I found myself over her lap, and in other embarrassing positions with my butt getting whipped and spanked hard... I will wait and see if anyone wants me to post or is interested in how I and my body reacted...

the key is - do you like it, and did you. It comes down the desire if you wish to add shame and humiliation to his process.

i once brought up this idea with my girlfriend at the time. she seemed very interested. mentioning her best friend.

Its quite humiliating. That said its also quite the effect on your mentality. It puts us "naughty boys" in the right frame of mind to receive our spankings.

I love this fantasy.
but would really haver to love her a lot and know trust and be friends with her friend so I didn't freak after going through with it

as long are in agreement with it, and confidentiality is respected have fun.


Of course it is very appropriate. How else will he understand the true meaning of discipline?

You should do you spankings with an audience to remind him of who is in charge.

Bare Hugs

Nudy, it was very embarrassing for me too and I\'m not sure I could get into giving public spankings. I might be able to get over it though.

If that is the case do what makes you happy. you are the one in charge so you get to call all the shots.

Bare Hugs

With the right kind of guy you would be confident enough to do it. The right guy would give you that type of reassurance and you would want to go through with it trust me.

you are so right pet !

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one of the first times my high shool gf spanked was for getting drunk, wrecking the car and spoiling our weekend trip to the beach. She didn't speak to me for a month. Then one Sunday when her folks were away she asked me to come over. I thought (so mistakenly) it was for make-up sex. But no. When she opened the door she brandished a hairbrush, took me by the ear to the basement--fast as we could go--pull a chair to the middle of the room. Sat down grabbed my belt and almost tore it off. Only a second later my underpants were puddled around my ankles and I was over her knee. All she said was "Get that bottom up, arched and in position, buddy boy."

I did as I was told, of course but that didn't stop her from spanking my fanny as hard as she could for at least ten minutes, then sent me to the corner. Upstairs I could hear foots steps. those could only have been her younger sister Lyn who was 2 grades behind us, but was also like my gf (Gloria) drop dead gorgeous and petite.

Gloria went up stairs for another five minutes or so, then came back down and ordered my back over her knee , bottom arched, "ready for some more of where that other came from." It seemed unending, like this reply, so I'll make it short. I was sent to the corner again, my bottom swollen a deep crimson, and me sobbing uncontrollably almost like I was gasping for air. Went back up stairs, left me standing silently in the corner. The next thing I heard was Lyn, who just gasped at the sight of me and said: "Oh gosh. I'll just but this down on the steps." Then she ran back upstairs.

Apparently Gloria had sent Lyn downstairs to console me with some lemonade.

Did the spanking seem worse, knowing that Lyn was upstairs and probably heard the whole thing?

That was quite a spanking. Did Gloria make that a regular part of your relationship?

When it is that a spanking is warranted, I do honestly believe that it should be administered immediately, though not in a public place. Though if they were in front of her friends and while in a residential setting, then that does not matter. He should be forced to pull his pants and underwear down around his ankles, made to lay across her lap and accept his deserved punishment. And even if she wishes to get her friends to help by either restraining him or spanking him, then so be it.

After he has been spanked, he should be made to stand in the corner with his freshly spanked *** on display.

I agree, except sometimes it's more fun to make him wait for the spanking. If instead of taking him to a private place I whisper in his ear and tell him he's going to get spanked later, he gets all nice and fidgety until it's time. For the few people who know I spank him, if they happen to be there, they know what i told him.

That is a great ideal.

I had an ex who lived in a small apartment complex, and she loved making me get naked so that she could spank me in front of all of the women at various times. Not all of them at once, but just whoever happened to be around.

But what was really embarrassing was once she did it in front of her friend and her friend's mom. And I had bruises on my *** for a week after that trip over her knees.

Black and blue in the back, and redfaced in the front whenever you had to face the friend or the mom, I'm sure.

Most definitely! Not to mention walking around the apartment complex either. Didn't matter if inside her apartment or a friend's apartment. If she thought that I needed to be spanked, then I was ******** and spanked right there. The only time that she didn't spank me immediately was when out in public or with family. And then she would warn me and promise that I would be spanked later.

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You sound like a VERY SEXY LADY. You could spank my bare bottom as I lay over your lap anytime -SO SEXY with the right person. WM-42 -6FT -BROWN HAIR -BLUE EYES with a little boy face on a man's body -LOL. Hollywood Handsome too -Honest. You can email me at if you would like. Bye

i would be humiliated

I've been spanked in front of others. Its quite humbling and intense but if there is good trust also worhtwhile.

my good...these men r such losers...ur the guy..u should be able to run the family...stupid fucktards...ever remember ur wife has an *** about paddling that *** if she acts up on u? doesnt take rocket science to get it that....or ur just perverts making up stories

I would love it although it would be highly embarrassing and humiliating

good boy !

My wife has done it to me many times.

After a while does the additional embarrassment wear off? I mean, the first time a friend watches it's gotta suck. The fourth or fifth time that friend watches you get it, is it still worse than when it was just your wife? Does she invite different friends over time?

No, the embarrassment doesn't wear off. Yes, it is. She doesn't invite friends over, women have witnessed my spankings accidentally. One time we went camping and on one of our hikes she found a spot by a waterfall and felt playful. She sat down on a big flat rock called me to her side, pulled my shorts down (I wasn't wearing any underwear), bent me over her knee and started to spank me for all the world to see. Well all the world didn't see, but 2 women in their 60's were hiking on the trail on the other side of the ravine no more than 200 feet away and witnessed the whole thing. Much to my chagrin.

I wish I had a girlfriend that will spank me 1000 times I am bad boy and Should I ask a girl to spank me

I would feel very embarassed and think it should be private between me and her.

My wife has paddled me in front of her cousin on several occasions. She has recently had her spank me when she was out of town so that I didn't miss my weekly correction. On our anniversary she decided I would be corrected daily which is really more than I ever bargained for but it is HER decision.<br />
I found out the hard way life CAN be much worse! About two weeks ago I was in a bad mood and just "forgot" my place and argued about being corrected daily. that night her cousin and her boyfriend came by for a visit and my wife made me go get the paddle, it's hard to explain just how embarrassed I was when I realized she was going to punish me in front of another man! After considerable begging she finally demanded I drop my pants and assume the position and after 100 licks I thanked her and started to get dressed, very much in pain and humiliated. To my surprise she stopped me and ask her cousin and her cousins boyfriend to take a turn. I honestly thought I would DIE from shame!<br />
Well needless to say I lived and can tell you all from a "subs" point of view being paddled on you're bare *** by a man with two women holding you still is just about as bad as I EVER want to be punished!!!<br />
After it was over and they left I begged her to never do it again and she agreed to "consider" my feelings but told me she enjoyed it and would make her decision ba<x>sed on my future behavior. So I guess the short answer is yes, I've been spanked in public. The fact is though it isn't the worst thing that can happen to you, so take my advice, mind you're mistress and remember you're place!

*my* butt hurts just from reading your story. Ouch! So far, none of my friends have spanked my boyfriend but I personally wouldn't let any situation go as far as yours did. Thank you for sharing that. Does your bottom clench up a bit as you relive it?

WPM, I too am spanked in front of other people. I am always restrained for punishment and my head is set between to boards just wide enough for my head not to be able to move. So I am never able to see who is in attendance. I do not have any idea who has seen me spanked, but I can assure you they have see me cry uncontrollably as I am punished very hard with a paddle. It is arousing but still humilating for sure!!

My girlfriend never spanking me in front of others, She enjoyed it only in privacy . I like when she spank me in privacy.

Most of the emails I've received say the same as you. Thank you for sharing.

I would not like to to this in public. But indeed, now I than I go over the knees of my girlfriend. Akso I spankes her bottom serveral times, and really hard on the panties or bare botton.

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Great story and great responses. Having been spanked in front of others on more than one occasion if you want to spank him in front of your roomates or anyone else for that matter do it. You don't need his permission. Most men would tell you no they wouldn't want to be punished in front of others. To do so goes against the male ego in most cases and admitting that to you is very difficult especially a younger male. If you enjoy it and want to take control don't give him the choice. I think you will find he wants you to take control of him and will be very happy you did.

Well, this was quite a while ago and I didn't spank him publicly a second time. It took a while for him to be comfortable around the roommates again.

I find it a little difficult to accept that you can just tell a guy you're going to humiliate him and he'll agree without complaint (and leaving you!) but maybe it depends on the relationship. He and I have been going together for a little while but we're not tied to each other and we don't have the sort of relationship that a lot of you seem to have.

I think at the time he would have left me for greener and less embarrassing pastures. Maybe it would be different now.

BBB, I too am not allowed a choice in the matter and it is hard to be ******** in the presence of others and then spanked to tears, which is always the case.

Very sexy to be dominated in front of an audience

I have indeed spanked him twice now in front of one of my female friends. <br />
She wants next time to bring her husband to see what lies ahead for him.

since this last posting my friend and her wayward hsuband have witnessed my bad boy take 50 with my riding crop

she borrowed my riding crop!

I usually get spanked a few times a week. Jenny and her friends like to share the spanking too. They all chant sweet phrases as they do it as I'm always in a petticoat & dress. Everyone wants to see me hard in my panties too.