I'm A Spanked Husband
My Wife has spanked me for years. She's very strict & dominant, & expects nothing less than total obedience & respect from me.
I obey Her without question. She is 100% in control of me & our marriage.
I learned if I wanted to be with Her, that She was going to be in charge, I was going to obey Her without question & be disciplined & punished when She saw fit, & I had one of two choices if I stayed with Her, learn to love it or learn to accept it, either would do, & it didn't matter to Her which I chose, for I was going to obey Her if I was going to be with Her. Once She took over & I accepted it, there was no more discussion or going back.
She took control & my spankings/paddlings started on our wedding night. She wanted to make it quite clear from the beginning who was in charge, & it wasn't to be me. On our wedding night She took me over Her lap & paddled me with Her hairbrush before we actually consummated our marriage by making love. In fact to my Wife, the actual consummation of our marriage was Her paddling me & taking charge, not in making love. That was no light little session either. By the time She was finished paddling me, (30 minutes later, She timed that one), my bottom was deep red to deep purple, heavily bruised, I was begging Her to stop through my tears & sobbing, & I was hoarse from crying. She put me in the corner & told me to get used to it, for She was in charge & that's how it was going to be. She had Her priorities in order from the beginning. The entire week we were on our honeymoon, & the rest of the first month of our marriage, each day began & ended with me over Her lap getting spanked & spending time crying in the corner, not including when She needed to punish me for something, the morning & evening sessions were just to remind me who was in charge. Each session, for punishment or as a reminder ended with me in tears & begging my Wife to stop, & it's been that way every time for nearly 26 years now. My Wife shows no mercy & cuts no corners when spanking/paddling me, for any reason.
When we were first married & I was learning Her rules, I was spanked by Her at least once a day, every day for falling short of Her rules & expectations, & usually 2-3 times a day on average just for that, not including the regular maintenance sessions each day. It took about six months for me to get to where it was an average of once a day merely for punishment, & about ten months before it was less than once a day for that. My Wife was & is extremely strict & does not let anything slide, no matter how minor it may seem to others. There were also a minimum of 3 days a week, (usually 4-5), after the first month that each day began & ended with my being over Her lap & every night I was over Her lap, for the first year of our marriage as She molded me into the "obedient little boy" that She wanted as a husband. My Wife let me know She wasn't going to tolerate what She considered "typical male behavior" & She was determined to & would break me of those faults. She made it very clear that She preferred & would have a "Good, docile, submissive & obedient little boy for a husband rather than an overly macho man that would try to assert his male 'authority'.", as She put it Herself. She so much as told me that the biggest reason that She married me, (besides loving me), is that She could tell I would be easy to train, dominate & control, & that's exactly what She was looking for in a man. She said that if I hadn't been so easily trainable & controllable, we would never have gotten married.
I get a weekly discipline session every Sunday to remind me of who is in charge in our marriage, ensure that I remain Her "obedient & good little boy", & because She knows being a man, that I've done something wrong that She didn't know about. I also get unannounced random spankings during the week, (at the very least 2-3 a week extra, usually 4-5), for the same reason that I had to have done something wrong. Even after 25 years of marriage, I still fall short at least once a month, (usually more often, an average of 4-5 times a month), & receive the full fledged punishment spankings as well. There is no begging, no pleading, & no negotiating when She feels I need to be spanked or paddled. It will happen. She uses Her hand, a hairbrush, a paddle or a belt, depending on what I have done. She will also use mouth soaping if She feels it's needed as well as corner time, (corner time is a given, no matter why I am spanked).
Weekly discipline session are always a minimum of 50 swats, unless I have needed to be punished the week prior, & then it's an additional 10 swats for each time She's had to punish me. Random spankings are a minimum of 25 swats, often more, & ones for punishment start at 100 swats & can go higher, (depending on the nature of the offense), to a maximum of 300 swats.
My wonderful Wife is a firm believer that men are nothing more than "overgrown little boys" that need the strict, firm & loving hand of a Woman, be it their Mother, their Wife, or another woman that the man has consented to being disciplined by to discipline, correct, punish, & guide them into what they should be.