MisbehavingOK I bet my story is like no others! I want my husband to spank me, he won't. He is VERY dominant, strong personality and stern. In his culture, he is from West Africa) men are in control, women are submissive. Well, let me tell you about me. I am independent, I am educated, but I have a HUGE mouth! I cuss and curse and I loose my temper quickly. I am also a loving mother, and as he puts is Perfect in very other way. He says I need to stop my explosive reactions, but does nothing to make me stop.
I went Macy's last weekend, spent $900.00 on clothes I didn't need, all he said while smiling was "don't spend all my money" and he was actually joking about it! This was CASH not credit! This is just an example of what I do to make him react and he doesn't it. I have talked to him about taking control of me and our home and he says he is, fo rthe most part he is, but I want to become submissive, I want him to spank me until it hurts. I want him to take me when ever he wants, if he wants to make love and I don't fell like it he 's fine with it. He is at home with me every evening, every weekend, there is no chance of him cheating. He is very handsome, I own my own business so I leave whenever I want. I don't know what to do!! He says he loves me ALOT and that I make him happy, I am happy too, but I want DISCIPLINE. Not for sexual arousal, but I think it would make me a better person around. What do you guys think? Am I being stupid? selfish? Plese give me advise.