I Spanked My Daughter For The 1st TimeMy eldest daughter A is twelve and has just begun to enter that stage of life where she back chats her Papa and I, among other things. She is the eldest of our seven children and her behaviour is having an effect on her young siblings (aged 13m-9).
As a rule, we are quite easy going as parents, and as a whole are children are well rounded, honest, truthful and lovable children. Because of this, "corner-time" and/or taking away a privelage has worked for us.
My husband and I had allowed A to attend a party of a school friend, on condition she was home by 6:30pm for Family Time. She agreed to this. At around 6:25pm, I went to the porch to look out for her, as is my norm. The school friends home is only a three minute walk away, so I expected her home soon. Ten minutes later, she wasn't home. I thought that perhaps she'd just lost track of time, so I called the mother of her friend.
Her friend's mother informed me that A and a few other girls had walked to a park that was 15 MINUTES AWAY! I was furious. My daughter knew she had to be home by 6:30, not to mention that she had not even contacted me to ask if she could go to the park in the first place. I was also furious with the mother of her friend, who seemed to think there was no problem!
Still seathing, I left my six yonger children with my parents and drove to the park to pick her up. On the way, I phoned my husband and told him what happened. On arrival, the look on my face must have told her how angry I was, because she grew pale. Once I got her in the car and we were on our way home, I informed her how angry and upset me and her Papa were and then informed her she would recieve a hearty spanking once we got home.
I'm not sure A really belived me, as when she opened the front door, she went flying into the living room, and started to tell everyone about it. Walking into the living room, a few moments later, I calmly asked her to remove herself from the family and go to the study. Our children know that being asked to enter their father's study means punishment of some sort.
A was sitting in a chair when I entered. I carefully explained to her that she had misbehaved and how she had misbehaved. I then told her that her punishment was a spanking and that I required her over my knee. By the time she was settled on my knee, she was weeping silently, as she had never had a spanking from either parent.
I spanked (with hand) for 2-3 minutes over her underwear and then removed her panties completely and continued for another 3-4 minutes. Even with her panties on, she was wailing hysterically. After the spanking was complete, I told her that she was to have a shower and then go to bed. She obeyed (obediently, I may add) and so far, we've had no further trouble.