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I Spanked My Son Twice

My husband and I have 2 sons 14 and 16. On Saturday I felt sorry for my son because I had to spank him once right after the first. My 16 yr old son was disrespectful to my sister while we were shopping. If he were younger I would have spanked him in the store but I told him I would deal with his behavior when we got home. He asked me if I was going to spank him and I said "yes Jeffrey, I am going to spank you when we get home." He knew better than to try to talk me out of it so he just said "yes ma'am." He did immediately apologize to my sister.
We got home about 30 minutes later. I told him to sit in the dinning room. Our boys receive their spanking in the dinning room and anyone who is visiting sees our boys get their spankings. We do not spank the boys in front of girls their own age but they are spanked in front of adult women or men. My sister and her twin 13 yr. old sons were with us during the shopping trip so Jeffrey knew he was going to be spanked in front of them. I reminded him that my other sister was due over shortly and she would most likely see him spanked he said "yes ma'am." Jeffrey said he knew why he was going to be spanked so I told him to bring me the paddle and he retrieved it from the wall. By the time he handed it to me he was starting to tear up. After he handed me the paddle I started to pull down and take off his pants and underpants. I put him over my knee and I told him to spread his legs apart as far as possible. The reason we have the boys spread their legs is because it deters them from tensing their buttocks. If our boys tense their buttocks even once during a spanking then we finish the spanking put them in the corner for 30 minutes and then bring them back and give them another spanking. The other reason that will make them get their spanking restarted is trying to or actually covering their genitals while they are being disrobed or while walking to corner time. Well while I was spanking Jeffrey my younger sister entered the room and she witnessed most of his spanking. He was crying while I was spanking him so he may not have noticed her in the room but he knew she was coming over. When I was done I told him to go to the corner. Once he stood up he saw my other sister and covered his genitals on the way to the corner. I did not say anything to him at the time. After his 30 minutes of corner time was over I called him over to me this time he kept his hands at his side allowing his penis and scrotum to be in full view. Jeff stood next to me and apologized. I told him to also apologize again to his aunt. He turned to her and said "I'm sorry I disrespected you." Jeff asked me if he could get dressed and I said, "I'm sorry Jeffrey but because you covered yourself mommy is going to have to put you back over my knee for another spanking. He said, "yes ma'am I know." I asked him if he realized he covered his penis while walking to the corner and he said, "yes ma'am. I put him back over my knee and proceeded to administer a second full spanking to my son's bare bottom. The first time I spanked him 40 times with the paddle and his second spanking was another 40 swats. Jeff's bottom was still red from the first spanking and it was a brighter shade of red after the second spanking and he was crying uncontrollably. I let him cry over my knee for a few minutes then I stood him up hugged him and told him I loved him very much and was sorry I had to give him a second spanking for covering his penis. He said "I won't cover my penis again mommy." I then took him upstairs to his room laid him on his bed on his tummy. I asked his if he wanted me to rub lotion on his sore bottom. Again through tears he said, yes ma'am. After I rubbed his very red bottom with lotion I rubbed his back and kept telling him how much I loved him. After a few minutes he stopped crying. He stayed on his tummy with his bottom exposed until dinner. I went to his room put a pair of pajama bottoms on him and then brought him down stairs. Today Jeffrey has been a very respectful little boy. I hope it lasts because he told me his bottom is still very sore.
Lninwa Lninwa 41-45, F 64 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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Wow you are a strict mommy! My sons are not that well behaved yet.

which is the reason that you don´t want your boys tensing their buttocks your , something affects in the punishment.

I have a 14-year-old stepson who I recently began to spank. I always lower his jeans and underpants to the floor myself then have him standing in front of me with his arms crossed behind his back while I give him a talking to. During this I have noticed him getting a full erection. Which of course he tries to cover with his hands. I don't allow it and have him cross his arms behind his back. Once over my knee and the spanking starts the erection quickly goes away. My worry is if my stepson is somehow enjoying being spanked and if that could be why he is so disobedient? Also he has began ************ in a far too frequent basis in my opinion. Every morning there is evidence of his ************ on his bedding. This is happening so frequently that I was needing to launder his bedding every morning. Now he is required to do his own laundry and if he don't he can just sleep in the Mess he is guilty of making. James is my stepson and this is all new to me is this a normal thing have you had to deal with it before??

It very normal for 14 yr old boys to ********** several times a day. He is not enjoying his spankings. Becoming erect is normal

i really hope this wasnt for real. if it was you are an abuser to put it mildly.

Why dont you admit that you spank ONLY for your sexual pleasure?

Are your sons eve erect for spankings?

Your abusing your child. 911, ANYBODY.

At 16 I would ***** slap the **** out of you! Then ask you if that hurt!

lmao!!!!

My parents were similar if I covered my penis in front of a girl I'd be spanked and have to spend 30 minutes in the corner with my penis on full display facing everyone that passed and not the corner with my hand behind my back

That would have been embarrassing for you. So you were spanked first & then you covered up, where you got an extra spanking. Is that right? What were you spanked with? how many swats did you get? How old were you when this happened? It happened to me as well.

Yeah thats right they usually used their hands there was no set number just till they felt it was sufficient

Bummer dude did it ever happen to you in front of others?

It sure did! it happened a few times in my teens & sometimes brought on an erection. That was hell! The girls would just stare.

O know what you mean that happened to me to it seemed as if there was nothing else in the room to look at lol

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Being disrespectful should earn a spanking. A good paddling over the knee is just what is needed. I am not sure I would have spanked the second time. I don't see anything wrong in covering up. His red bottom was still on full display.

This is wrong

I too think that this woman ? or person is full off bull **** too !

Is this story a fake or do you just look for attention? This exact same story appeared on voy.com in August this year. Still saying he was spanked last Saturday. You wrote it under the name Teresa & didn't get one reply! You wrote a few posts under the name Teresa.

For me she is a sexual spanker, nothing else...and a bit sadistic...and tries to hide behind discipline.

Well some times people steal other peoples stories and say is there story.

well ive putted on many comments and im gonna just say this now you dont need to put on a show to other people to make him understand his lesson, you dont need to get his penis exposed to get him to understand his lesson, yh you can spank them to make them learn their lesson thats fine by me but putting on a show, and make him be exposed is not right. you will get the message of behaving correctly without having him naked and putting on a show. i hope you reply and reconsider this. and if needed i will go out on a psychological note but i hope i dont and i hope i can try to understand your side for doing that

She gets off on it, and heavily.
Funny how she tries to hide her sexual cravings for spanking the boys behind "discipline", lol.

im gonna wait for her to reply and after my conversation with her im gonna talk to you

Yes she is sad and disgusting.

You are a total sicko and a perv. I really feel sorry for your sons to have such a sick and disgusting mother. I hope they get out of your house, and safely from your control as soon as possible.

@golubki, you are the sicko, it is because of people like you that the world is filled with disrespectful out of control lawless kids, with no respect for authority. This lady is a breath of fresh air in today's society, because she believes in regular discipline of her sons.

Decav, she has made this up! She posts in lots of forums!

I think you did the right thing. It's absolutely vital that once you make clear what the rules are, that you follow them otherwise the whole system falls down.

It's right I think that the humility rule is followed as it shows that one cannot avoid being exposed if there is wrongdoing.

Is this for real? You forced a sixteen year old boy to show his genitals! You hit him again when he tried to cover them! Of coarse he is gonna try to cover his penis you should know that... Does anyone see anything wrong with that

Are all of your ancestors retarded or are you the first where it shows?

Maybe you need a maintenance caning...so you know how it feels to be beaten just for the pleasure of mommy (lol), auntie or any other relative.

Something is seriously wrong with u lady

Lninwa, you did just fine. My mom and dad spanked me (bare bottom and in front of whoever was present when I needed one) until I was finished with college. I'm glad they did, I'm a better person because of it, and we are still a very close family with them in their eighties.

I guess it depends on the individual, but in most cases if spanking is the most common punishment it will remain effective through the late teens. From both my friends when I was in high school and from talking with families now, kids resent grounding and other longer term punishments far more than a spanking which is over quickly.

Jamie W.
I would like to point out that spanking a teenage young man for covering his genitals is inappropriate.

Firstly, a 16 year old is not a young man, he is a child. The age of majority is 18 and anyone younger than that is a child. Referring to children as young adults is something this society needs to get over. A 25 year old is a young adult. Secondly, he was not spanked for the specific act of covering his genitals, he was spanked for the much broader act of breaking a rule that he knew about.

ok i agree with the spankings to keep in order no matter what his age is, but let me tell you that a 16 year old is not a child, he is a teenager/young adult, at 18 if you go to court you will not be judge for being a young adult, but you will be judged as an adult and just that. if you are 16 you are going to be judge as a teenager not a child, but overall i agree with what you said

Some people see any spanking as assault, others as ineffective parenting, and still others as a legitimate and effective punishment method for children regardless of age. As long as the spanking is done in a calm and controlled manner and within well defined rules, I fit into the latter group. It is essential to keep in mind that he was not spanked speciffically for covering himself, he was spanked because the family has a rule against covering, he knows about that rule, and he violated it. Regardless of what we think of the specific rule (and I don\'t like this one either), violating a rule that he know about did warrant punishment.

And as an aside, I don\'t understand people who just block another member they disagree with, rather than engaging in a reasonable conversation about the issue at hand.

Hi Jamie thank you for your support. I totally agree with long groundings the parent and child relationship is more strained IMHO. With spanking my boys know I spank because I love them and just want them to behave. We hug them after a spanking and all is forgiven. We don't keeps reminding them of their bad behavior that got them spanked

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I don't agree with most of the reactions to this. You are a very, very strict mum, that's true, but a loving one that wants the best for her sons. I think you did a good job giving him punishment for being disrespectful to your sister, and then spanking him a second time for covering his genitals. If you have told him he's not allowed to he should obey you without fuss. It's mummy that calls the shots! If Jeff don't understand that he will have to learn the hard way. The bit with other people looking on is debatable. I think it would have sufficed with the sister that Jeff offended.

you are a bad mom

Scary, in a sick twisted way if true. 14 and 16 and still being spanked? Says a lot about the parents ability to communicate.

Unfortunately this is true,, The first spanking is ok but another 40 is a disgrace. They have a 25 yrs woman who spanks their sons as well! The boys love to get spanked by a sexy young woman. for some unknown reason the parents keep going away together every second weekend leaving their sons to be all the time and they love it!

i was punished like that in the 60s now such parenting should not be allowed if this story is true then you went way over the top and like me your son will grow up with issues a hand spanking is ok as long as its not excessive

I think your stories are fake and you just like writing child ****!

You wouldn't have to spank your son in the first place if you brought him up in sucha way that you could discuss the problem. I was brought up like this as are many others and it works fine! I believe that spanking is unacceptable and especially to someone who is 16 years old! How do you think he is going to be with his children? You are setting a terrible example

I agree with everyone else, your sick. I believe in giving a child a good spanking, but you took it to far. You should've had him go to his room and spank there instead.

alecc, thank you

Clearly a work of fiction, probably written by a man.

This is not a work of fiction & the writer is a woman

I really believe this psycho is real and sadly, this did indeed happen.

I think cps should be called.

In the NY Child Welfare System a story such as this would definitely be grounds for a case, but it's never guaranteed the child will be removed. A lot of times a Preventative case is granted by the court in which the parents have to complete services (anger management, parenting classes, etc) but the children aren't removed. Pretty much its CPS telling the parents, "cut the crap cause I'm watching you."

Agreed. WTF.... WOOOW. 16?!??!!?! YOU SHOULD BE TELLING HIM TO GET A JOB INSTEAD OF PUTTING HIM OVER YOUR KNEE. W...T...F. I HOPE ONE OF THEM CALLS THE COPS AND YOUR CHARGED.

One good reason to not live in NY! And I totally agree with what Lninwa did, she is a good Mother, raising respectful boys!

I agree with 123why321, you are very sick. Don't get me wrong though. I'm a firm believer in giving a child a spanking, but not the way you did. You humilated your son for no reason. If you wanted to spanked him then it should've been done in the privacy of his bedroom. You could have pulled down his underwear just below his buttocks and gave him a spanking on the bare and not expose his private parts to everyone. You need help.