I love to spank my gf. I turn her over my lap, take her pants and panties down and spank her bare bottom. Her bottom gets all pink and she wiggles and squirms and squeels. Then I slip a finger between her buttocks or between her legs and rub her sex until she gets wet. Then we do other things. I never spank too hard, and I never use anything but my hand. I never make her cry. I just spank her for fun, because she likes it.